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11/15/2025

Men, please stop trying to “fix” her triggers by rushing her healing, minimizing her pain, or telling her it’s “in the past.”
I know you want things to feel normal again… but those responses quietly deepen her wound.

When a wife has been betrayed, her body is still living inside the impact. She’s not choosing these reactions—her nervous system is trying to protect her.

And the truth is:
Your defensiveness, shutdown, or shame-spiraling doesn’t help her feel safe. It just makes her feel more alone in the pain you created.

What does help?

Learning how betrayal trauma works.
Understanding what her triggers actually mean.
Responding with steadiness instead of fear.
Owning the harm without collapsing into shame.
Becoming a man her nervous system can rest with again.

That’s what I teach inside my webinar for men:
“Why She Still Gets Triggered (and Why It’s Not About Forgiveness).”

If you want to stop guessing…
If you want to stop accidentally hurting her…
If you want to become safe again…
This training will change the way you show up.

Your marriage doesn’t need perfection.
It needs humility, curiosity, consistency—
and a willingness to understand the pain you didn’t mean to cause.

✨ Link in bio to join.

Healing requires truth, responsibility, and compassion—qualities Jesus embodies perfectly. As you learn to show up with humility and steady love, you’re reflecting His heart toward your wife. It’s slow, sacred work, but you don’t have to do it alone.

11/14/2025

The renewal phase of healing after betrayal is not about going back to what once was. It is about creating something new, something honest, something worth fighting for.

One of the most powerful steps in this stage is pausing to ask reflective questions. These questions are not about your partner’s choices but about how you are showing up, what patterns you carry, and what kind of relationship you want to build.

When you take responsibility for your part, you create space for true intimacy to grow. Renewal happens when two people are doing their own healing work while also choosing to co-create something safe, loving, and resilient together.

Start with these questions, and let them guide you toward the marriage you long for.

Tesa Saulmon LMHC CSAT  🌐 www.roottobloomtherapy.com  📧 hello@roottobloomtherapy.com  📞 (850) 530-7236

 

11/13/2025

For many men who have betrayed their partner, emotional presence was never modeled.

Maybe you grew up in a home where emotions were dismissed, or where strength meant silence. So when conflict or pain arises, it can feel natural to shut down, withdraw, or defend instead of lean in.

But here’s the truth—emotional presence can be learned.
Healing begins the moment you’re willing to stay engaged, even when it’s uncomfortable. It looks like:
💬 Naming what you feel instead of hiding it
💔 Staying present when your partner is hurting
👂 Listening without trying to fix or defend

These small moments of vulnerability are where safety and repair begin to take root.

Presence doesn’t mean perfection. It means patience, humility, and the courage to keep showing up—especially when it would be easier to walk away.

True strength isn’t found in hiding — it’s found in humility. When you bring your pain, your fears, and your heart before God and your partner, grace has room to work. Healing starts where honesty meets love.

What do you think is the hardest part about practicing emotional presence? Let’s talk about it below. ⬇️

🌐 www.roottobloomtherapy.com

📧 hello@roottobloomtherapy.com

📞 (850) 530-7236

11/12/2025

Betrayal trauma changes everything.
It shakes your sense of safety, identity, and the world you thought you knew. You might find yourself asking, “Who can I trust?” or “Why can’t I just move on?”

You’re not broken — you’re traumatized. And there’s a difference.

In my Understanding Betrayal Trauma Webinar, I’ll help you:
✅ Understand how betrayal trauma goes far beyond infidelity
✅ Learn why your brain and body respond the way they do
✅ Recognize your trauma responses and release the shame that comes with them
✅ Practice strategies to stabilize yourself and begin rebuilding trust
✅ Gain tools to reclaim your personal power and emotional freedom

You don’t have to face the impact of betrayal alone.
This webinar offers the clarity, compassion, and hope you need to begin feeling safe again.

You may feel like everything has fallen apart — but you are still held. God has not abandoned you in the breaking. Healing may be a slow rebuild, but it begins with one step toward safety, truth, and grace. 💛

Take a step toward safety, resilience, and renewed strength today. 💛
🌐 www.roottobloomtherapy.com

📧 hello@roottobloomtherapy.com

📞 (850) 530-7236

11/11/2025

Renewal after betrayal is not about pretending nothing happened or simply repairing what was broken. It is about co-creating something new that can truly hold both of you. A relationship built on trust, honesty, grace, and love can become a sacred bond worth protecting and fighting for.

If you are in this season, remember that renewal is slow and often messy, but it can also be deeply beautiful.

Save this post if you need a reminder that rebuilding is possible.

Tesa Saulmon LMHC CSAT  🌐 www.roottobloomtherapy.com  📧 hello@roottobloomtherapy.com  📞 (850) 530-7236
                               

11/10/2025

The pain of betrayal runs deep, touching every part of who you are. Emotions can feel unpredictable and overwhelming. One moment you may be flooded with anger, the next completely numb. You might grieve the relationship you thought you had, feel disgust toward your partner or yourself, or spiral into confusion about what is real.
These emotional waves can leave you wondering if healing is even possible. They are not signs of weakness. They are natural responses of a nervous system that has been deeply hurt.
I walk with betrayed partners through the emotional, physical, and spiritual impact of trauma, offering guidance, tools, and support to help you rebuild safety, restore your worth, and believe in hope again.
Tesa Saulmon LMHC CSAT  🌐 www.roottobloomtherapy.com  📧 hello@roottobloomtherapy.com  📞 (850) 530-7236

11/09/2025

She says she forgives you… so why is she still triggered?😔
If you’ve ever asked that question——this live webinar is for you.

Healing from betrayal trauma isn’t just about forgiveness. It’s about safety, trust, and nervous system repair.
In this live event, we’ll unpack what’s really happening when she still gets triggered—and why it’s not about being unforgiving, dramatic, or “stuck in the past.”

You’ll learn:
🌿 Why triggers are the body’s signal of unhealed pain, not a lack of faith
🌿 How betrayed and betraying partners can both respond with compassion
🌿 What emotional safety looks like in real-time recovery moments
🌿 How couples can begin to rebuild connection even when triggers still show up

If you’re walking through infidelity recovery, betrayal trauma, or addiction recovery in your marriage, this teaching will change how you see healing. It’s grounded in both clinical insight and faith-based truth—helping you move from frustration to understanding.

💻 Register now for “Why She Still Gets Triggered (and Why It’s Not About Forgiveness)”—a live webinar hosted by Tesa Saulmon, LMHC, CSAT
👉 Link in bio or visit roottobloomtherapy.com/livewebinars

11/07/2025

It is easy to feel like you have lost your footing when betrayal shakes your world. Emotions can swing between anger, fear, and confusion, and knowing what to do next may seem impossible.
The Betrayed Spouse Healing Workbook was created to walk with you through this difficult season. With trauma-sensitive guidance, it helps you move from reaction to intention, teaching you to recognize your patterns, manage defensiveness, and protect your emotional safety with healthy boundaries.
Inside, you will find space to reflect, practical strategies to stabilize your nervous system, and tools to help you rebuild trust in yourself. Most importantly, this workbook empowers you to move forward with clarity and strength, regardless of your partner’s readiness to do their own work.
Download your copy today and begin reclaiming your safety, clarity, and confidence.
Tesa Saulmon LMHC CSAT 🌐 www.roottobloomtherapy.com 📧 hello@roottobloomtherapy.com 📞 (850) 530-7236
                               

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