03/27/2026
"Do what you love"
But if that hobby is physical in nature, they ask "when do you relax?", why don’t you "have fun" (Aka binge drink and eat trash food). I truly believe a lot of that judgement comes from envy.
It's an empty life to live if you think eating junk food and drinking alcohol is your only idea of fun/enjoyment.
I feel bad for people that think we “don’t have fun” just because we’re in the gym often. They likely don’t have anything in their life that they genuinely enjoy doing without chemical assistance.
Some of my best memories have been from training, and that’s not something I’m ashamed to admit. Go to the gym, sometimes go too heavy, try new exercises, find new friend groups, enjoy training.
Exercise isn’t torture.