01/24/2026
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Growing up as a foster kid, my odds of success were bleak. Though it didn't happen as quickly as myself (or others) would have preferred, I eventually found my way.
Looking back on my journey and the journey of countless other kids in similar situations, our turning points share a single common denominator.
ONE. CARING. ADULT.
It's not just a catchy quote or an anecdotal personal story. It's evidence-backed...
"Science shows that children who do well despite serious hardship have had at least one stable and committed relationship with a supportive adult." Source: Havard's National Scientific Council on the Developing Child (2015)
Every Kid Is One Caring Adult Away from Being a Success Story.
Kids like me won't make it easy to be that ONE.
We'll push you away. And cuss you out. And break your heart.
Just know, we don't hate you; we hate what has happened to us.
Just know, we are listening, even when it seems we aren't.
Just know, we value you, even when our words and actions say anything but.
One day when reflecting on our lives (as I'm doing in this post today as a 40-year-old man), your face will pop into our minds.
Whether you were our parent, grandparent, coach, teacher, pastor, mentor, or next-door neighbor, you can be that one. Not for all kids. But for a kid. And for that kid, you'll slowly, painfully, exhaustively, change everything for them.
Don't judge in real-time what history will prove over time.
You are, indeed, that one caring adult.