03/25/2026
🤷♀️How do you prepare to be a doula?
There are many avenues one can take to become a doula, depending on one's goals. I knew I had a strong pull to postpartum care initially. I had my first in December 2019. My husband and I had all unmarried male roommates at the time, and none of them knew how to help or support a new family (to no fault of theirs; you only know what you know). I was healing from a 4th-degree tear and navigating a low milk supply to a very hungry baby. My family of origin lived hundreds of miles away. Most of our friends were not having kids yet. We were often alone in trying to figure it all out. Then Covid hit 3 months later (on my 30th birthday 😉) just when I was starting to feel like myself again. Postpartum depression hit hard for both my husband and me.
And as the Lord does, He laid on my heart that I wasn’t the only one to ever experience loneliness, doubt, uncertainty, fear, anxiety, depression, and more during postpartum when I wanted to be rejoicing that I had a precious new life to celebrate. We didn’t have a village. He showed me a more excellent way…
I initially came up with the idea to create postpartum rebuilding baskets filled with all the practical things you need for your own well-being that no one gives you at the baby shower. I wanted mothers to feel seen in the chaos of those early days when sleep is a memory, cracking the code of what each cry means, deciphering if this p**p color is normal, and the overwhelming pressure of, "Should I be doing more?”
I learned how to BE THE VILLAGE.
After a few years of unofficially serving women and families in their postpartum adventures, I then found a program to train with for both birth and postpartum to make myself official. I love to learn and be led by where the Lord leads to meet the needs of His people, so I continuously find more ways to improve what I do.
🌻Where the enemy thought he could dig my grave, the Lord used to plant and blossom a new life.