The Intimacy Firm

11/20/2025

It’s never been a secret about how I feel about parenting. It is indescribably difficult.

But the love I have for this little boy is even the more indescribable. He is proof that God hears my cries. He is proof that even the young will prophesy. He is joy embodied. Happy birthday to my favorite second born son!

Also, He said he’s welcoming any birthday offerings 🤣… $reconcarter

11/18/2025

Whew. This one is real, raw, and redemptive.

In this episode of Daring Discussions, I’m sitting down with Joanna and Matthew Raabsmith, marriage coaches, and proof that healing is possible. We talk about what happens when the damage of po*******hy meets the covenant of marriage… and how grace, communication, accountability, and faith walked them through it.

Drawing from their own journey of healing after
experiencing the devastation of sexual addiction and
betrayal in their marriage, Matthew and Joanna bring authenticity, hope, and practical wisdom to every conversation.

Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, this conversation offers hope, insight, and a clear picture of what redemption can look like…in AND out of the bedroom.

11/18/2025

Remember This?

11/14/2025

11/11/2025

Performing like a “p0rn star” and panicking that you might be acting like a “p0rn star” … both keep you from being free in your body… and your bed.

You can’t be fully present if you’re performing, but you also can’t be fully free if you’re policing every move.

You need help being free? DM me FREE and I’ll send you the link to workbook/prayer journal that’ll change your whole outlook (and s e x life!)

11/07/2025

Feeling nervous? Try this text message formula:

Acknowledge: “I love the way you __.”
Anticipate: “I’ve been thinking about __.”
Invite: “Later, let’s __.”

Example: “I love the way you kissed my neck this morning. Now I’m thinking about how good it will feel to your lips all over my body. Later, I want you to take your time and show me your favorite places to kiss me.” 👀

Erotic communication isn’t just about se x, it’s about building desire, deepening connection, and embracing the gift of pleasure God designed for your marriage.

So, Sis…what’s your text going to say? Drop a 🔥 if you’re sending one!

11/05/2025

and I did not hold back when talking about what it REALLY takes to heal after heartbreak! Have you watched this week’s episode?

Comment heal and I’ll send it to you!

11/05/2025

Whether He blesses me suddenly or eventually, I’m going to praise Him continually!

~ Pastor Marcus D. Cosby

11/05/2025

In the name of Jesus

11/05/2025

There comes a moment when the fight isn’t with people anymore...it’s with God.

Not because you’re defiant, but because you’re desperate.
Desperate for answers, for clarity, for healing, for purpose.

Jacob knew that feeling. One long night by the river, he wrestled with God until the break of day, and walked away changed forever.
Limping, yes… but also blessed.

That’s what we’re talking about tonight.
What happens when God won’t let you go until you see who you really are.

Genesis 32 | “Have You Wrestled with God?”
Naked & Unashamed Bible Study
8PM EST on Zoom ( 🔗 in stories)

Come ready to wrestle. And rememeber
Sometimes the blessing comes through the breaking.