04/14/2026
Grief is harder when we aren’t allowed to talk about death. That message can be explicit - “We don’t talk about that out loud.” or implicit through mirroring others.
Many people carry doubt after a loss—not because they didn’t love deeply, but because they didn’t know how to have the conversation.
Talking about death won’t cause it, but it *can* help people face it together. It can create space for love, meaning, preparation, connection, and meaningful decisions.
Who taught you how to talk about death?