Rewire4Success

12/08/2025

//DEALING WITH A P**N ADDICTED PARTNER?//

Every day, my feed fills with posts from women dealing with a p**n addicted partner, asking the same heartbreaking question:

“Should I stay or should I go?”

And underneath that question lives a world of emotions:

Anger.
Disgust.
Hopelessness.
Despair.

When the responses come in, they’re usually predictable:

“Leave him.”
“He’ll never change.”
“He’s trash.”

But here’s the part no one talks about:

Most people giving that advice never learned how to navigate addiction, never got professional support, and never experienced actual recovery.

It’s like asking people who got stuck on amusement park rides whether you should buy season passes to Disneyland.

Wrong group. Wrong vantage point.

If you’re truly trying to evaluate whether to stay or go, you need:

⭐ The right information
⭐ The right support
⭐ The right tools
⭐ A realistic understanding of what change requires

Because here’s the truth:

Unless you’ve been given the tools that actually lead to success, you will never know if success was even possible.

Yes — the stats are low.

But that’s even more reason not to attempt this alone.
When we get cancer, we don’t wait it out.

When our car breaks down, we don’t just “hope” it gets better.
But when it comes to:

Our marriage
Our mental health
Our quality of life
Our children’s future
We suddenly talk ourselves out of getting help.
We tell ourselves:

“I can figure this out.”
“He’ll eventually change.”
“I don’t want to invest.”
“I’ll just look for free options.”

But nothing in this journey is free.

The cost of NOT getting support looks like:

❌ continued betrayal
❌ emotional overwhelm
❌ trauma accumulation
❌ confusion
❌ hopelessness
❌ unnecessary divorce

So many families could have had a shot — if only they had support, clarity, and a path from the start.

The bottom line is no one can tell you whether to stay or go (nor should they!)

That decision is always yours, and it should be.

But the confidence to make a decision you won’t regret comes from having:

Clarity.
Support.
Information.
And tools that actually work.

When you have those in place, the answer becomes far more clear.

If you’re in that place right now, trying to understand what’s possible…

trying to figure out whether to hold on or let go…

trying to rebuild trust while protecting your heart…

You don’t have to try to sort through that alone and make the biggest decision of your life without clarity.

If you want a personalized Relationship Audit to understand:

✔ what’s actually required for change
✔ what’s realistic for your partner
✔ what boundaries to set
✔ whether healing is possible
✔ what your next step should be

Our team of professionals offer a Relationship Audit designed to give you exactly that.

Click the link to apply.👇

We only work with couples ready to commit to deep, lasting transformation. To apply for a free Relationship Audit, complete the short form below.

10/13/2025

Some people will tell you that you need to "let go" of your anger, and honestly, if you want to heal from what's causing that anger, it's terrible advice!

As if just simply letting go of your anger is that easy!

You have to sit with your anger, understand it, and process it in order to heal.

If you "let go" of your anger without doing that, what you're really doing is suppressing your anger, and that's not going to be good for you later on, because it will come back with a much greater ferocity.

You're allowed to feel angry because of what someone chose to do, or what they took away; it's a normal human emotion!

Don't allow anyone to belittle or invalidate your emotions and how you're feeling!

You don't need to feel guilty for experiencing a normal human emotion in response to someone's abnormal actions or behaviours!

You're allowed to feel anger in order to heal from it, it's just not somewhere that you want to live forever...

~ Mark Smith
© The Super Powered Mind

05/23/2025

If you’re like most women who have been betrayed by their partner’s p**n use or escalated infidelity, you’re probably wondering on a daily basis…

“Is he really going to change? Or am I sacrificing my own well-being and mental health by staying?”

You’re probably sick and tired of:

✅ Constantly wishing you had more clarity on what he’s doing or SHOULD be doing to overcome this
✅ Being afraid you’re just waiting for the next betrayal
✅ Not feeling confident about what boundaries to set
✅ Suppressing your own emotional needs and pain to keep the peace

Yet, you’re still fighting for your relationship because he’s willing to go to therapy, attempts to have conversations with you (though they never seem to go the way either of you want them to), and he tells you that he still loves you.

We get it. We’re Rick and Katie Kies. A couple who has been through this, and knows what it’s like to go through years of pain, betrayal, lies, and deception…

…as well as honesty, vulnerability, transparency, maturity, growth and healing.

As a couple, we desperately searched for answers to overcome my husband’s 25 year p**n addiction he brought into our relationship—consulting therapists, joining support groups, and nightly conversations yet still feeling completely uncertain of whether or not we were on the right trajectory.

That’s why once we finally got on the other side of this, we decided to create a comprehensive system to help other couples do it too. Drawing from our own journey, other experts in neuroscience and psychology, and our hired staff's professional experience, we now help couples have a structured and guided path through p**n addiction recovery, offering proven support for lasting healing.

The first couple to ever go through our system said it best:

“You saved our relationship. We don’t know what we would have done without you.”

Finally, a couples-centered approach to recovery that can hold and have compassion for both sides of this difficult experience.

Click below to join our free group and begin a journey toward true healing and recovery:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/couplesovercomingaddiction

05/22/2025

If you’re like most women who have been betrayed by their partner’s p**n use or escalated infidelity, you’re probably wondering on a daily basis…

“Is he really going to change? Or am I sacrificing my own well-being and mental health by staying?”

You’re probably sick and tired of:

✅ Constantly wishing you had more clarity on what he’s doing or SHOULD be doing to overcome this
✅ Being afraid you’re just waiting for the next betrayal
✅ Not feeling confident about what boundaries to set
✅ Suppressing your own emotional needs and pain to keep the peace

Yet, you’re still fighting for your relationship because he’s willing to go to therapy, attempts to have conversations with you (though they never seem to go the way either of you want them to), and he tells you that he still loves you.

We get it. We’re Rick and Katie Kies. A couple who has been through this, and knows what it’s like to go through years of pain, betrayal, lies, and deception…

…as well as honesty, vulnerability, transparency, maturity, growth and healing.

As a couple, we desperately searched for answers to overcome my husband’s 25 year p**n addiction he brought into our relationship—consulting therapists, joining support groups, and nightly conversations yet still feeling completely uncertain of whether or not we were on the right trajectory.

That’s why once we finally got on the other side of this, we decided to create a comprehensive system to help other couples do it too. Drawing from our own journey, other experts in neuroscience and psychology, and our hired staff's professional experience, we now help couples have a structured and guided path through p**n addiction recovery, offering proven support for lasting healing.

The first couple to ever go through our system said it best:

“You saved our relationship. We don’t know what we would have done without you.”

Finally, a couples-centered approach to recovery that can hold and have compassion for both sides of this difficult experience.

Click below to take our Couples Recovery Assessment to see where you and your partner are currently at in this process.

https://www.rewire4success.life/couples-assessment

02/19/2025

Things that are supposed to last a life time cannot be a quick fix.

10/19/2024

10/18/2024

We’ve got something special happening for all of our group members and coaching clients this week.

If you’ve ever wished that you could have unfiltered truths from a successfully recovered p**n addict… this will be a big week for you.

We just put together a free webinar event, ‘Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict’ for women and their partners who are looking for answers to help them transform their relationship after experiencing the detrimental effects of p**n addiction.

As we are approaching the end to another year, we’ve noticed so many couples who began the year hoping to be in a much better place, but who aren't feeling like they have any more answers now than they did then.

This is understandably creating feelings of overwhelm for both partners as they feel they are both running as hard as they can... only to find themselves in a hamster wheel.

Another discovery, another relapse, another trauma to pile on top of the others that they also didn't expect to happen.

Sadly, many couples we've checked in with after several months are no longer together.

So if you’re currently banging your head against the wall, feeling like something has to change or else you just can't do this, then let's help you get some relief by answering some of those questions that you haven't been able to figure out on your own yet.

This why we're hosting this special webinar, and click here to know how to register for free:

https://www.rewire4success.life/pl/2148583283

We're going to answer as many questions as we can in the 2 hours we've set aside for this event.

If you haven't already given us your questions in response to the post we made earlier in this group, you can leave your question at the bottom of this post.

Our live webinar event will be unique because not only is it the first we've hosted outside of our single topic weekly live talks..... but it will give couples an idea of what it is like to work close enough with us to get a taste of what we teach inside our private groups and program curriculum.

The same insights we teach our clients to help them transform their relationship and build the next 20, 30 and 40+ years together.

“Rewire4Success Webinar Event: Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict" is happening Saturday, October 26, 2024 @ 5:00PM PST | 8:00 PM EST.

We want to show you behind the scenes what it really took for Rick to transform himself from being a 25 year p**n addict who had destroyed every past relationship, to a man who now takes pride every day in competing for the title of being "The Most Faithful Man In The World".

So instead of not knowing that there are pieces to your recovery puzzle that are still missing, instead we'll help you see a complete picture (which is always a lot less frustrating than trying to put together a puzzle without one.)
Attend our live “Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict” next Saturday, the 26th to get your questions answered.

✅ To save your seat for that Saturday...

[Click here to register: https://www.rewire4success.life/pl/2148583283]

Once you register, we’ll email you the private zoom link to attend and a button to save it to your calendar.

Save that link and tap it next Saturday night to tune in live.

We'll see you there.

- Katie