Rewire4Success

02/02/2026

Two broken people. Yes. Yet ALWAYS there will be two broken people. Because we allll have trauma. And it shapes us into who we are. But, these things aren’t fixed. It always comes down to:

Are you willing and ready to do the work to be better? So you can actually love someone and accept love?

The work can’t just continue to be put off for another day.

And no, you won’t just figure this out on your own. The billions of humans who have also existed before you AND with you currently, have been there and have a LOT of value to shorten lifetimes of learning curves for you.

There’s only so long one person will continue to abuse themselves for you, while you abuse them for your own benefits.

They will finally get the understanding and courage to choose themselves if you cannot.

Make decisions intentionally, don’t take that love for granted. If you do, it will be gone.

10/13/2025

Some people will tell you that you need to "let go" of your anger, and honestly, if you want to heal from what's causing that anger, it's terrible advice!

As if just simply letting go of your anger is that easy!

You have to sit with your anger, understand it, and process it in order to heal.

If you "let go" of your anger without doing that, what you're really doing is suppressing your anger, and that's not going to be good for you later on, because it will come back with a much greater ferocity.

You're allowed to feel angry because of what someone chose to do, or what they took away; it's a normal human emotion!

Don't allow anyone to belittle or invalidate your emotions and how you're feeling!

You don't need to feel guilty for experiencing a normal human emotion in response to someone's abnormal actions or behaviours!

You're allowed to feel anger in order to heal from it, it's just not somewhere that you want to live forever...

~ Mark Smith
© The Super Powered Mind

05/23/2025

If you’re like most women who have been betrayed by their partner’s p**n use or escalated infidelity, you’re probably wondering on a daily basis…

“Is he really going to change? Or am I sacrificing my own well-being and mental health by staying?”

You’re probably sick and tired of:

✅ Constantly wishing you had more clarity on what he’s doing or SHOULD be doing to overcome this
✅ Being afraid you’re just waiting for the next betrayal
✅ Not feeling confident about what boundaries to set
✅ Suppressing your own emotional needs and pain to keep the peace

Yet, you’re still fighting for your relationship because he’s willing to go to therapy, attempts to have conversations with you (though they never seem to go the way either of you want them to), and he tells you that he still loves you.

We get it. We’re Rick and Katie Kies. A couple who has been through this, and knows what it’s like to go through years of pain, betrayal, lies, and deception…

…as well as honesty, vulnerability, transparency, maturity, growth and healing.

As a couple, we desperately searched for answers to overcome my husband’s 25 year p**n addiction he brought into our relationship—consulting therapists, joining support groups, and nightly conversations yet still feeling completely uncertain of whether or not we were on the right trajectory.

That’s why once we finally got on the other side of this, we decided to create a comprehensive system to help other couples do it too. Drawing from our own journey, other experts in neuroscience and psychology, and our hired staff's professional experience, we now help couples have a structured and guided path through p**n addiction recovery, offering proven support for lasting healing.

The first couple to ever go through our system said it best:

“You saved our relationship. We don’t know what we would have done without you.”

Finally, a couples-centered approach to recovery that can hold and have compassion for both sides of this difficult experience.

Click below to join our free group and begin a journey toward true healing and recovery:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/couplesovercomingaddiction

02/19/2025

Things that are supposed to last a life time cannot be a quick fix.

10/19/2024

10/18/2024

We’ve got something special happening for all of our group members and coaching clients this week.

If you’ve ever wished that you could have unfiltered truths from a successfully recovered p**n addict… this will be a big week for you.

We just put together a free webinar event, ‘Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict’ for women and their partners who are looking for answers to help them transform their relationship after experiencing the detrimental effects of p**n addiction.

As we are approaching the end to another year, we’ve noticed so many couples who began the year hoping to be in a much better place, but who aren't feeling like they have any more answers now than they did then.

This is understandably creating feelings of overwhelm for both partners as they feel they are both running as hard as they can... only to find themselves in a hamster wheel.

Another discovery, another relapse, another trauma to pile on top of the others that they also didn't expect to happen.

Sadly, many couples we've checked in with after several months are no longer together.

So if you’re currently banging your head against the wall, feeling like something has to change or else you just can't do this, then let's help you get some relief by answering some of those questions that you haven't been able to figure out on your own yet.

This why we're hosting this special webinar, and click here to know how to register for free:

https://www.rewire4success.life/pl/2148583283

We're going to answer as many questions as we can in the 2 hours we've set aside for this event.

If you haven't already given us your questions in response to the post we made earlier in this group, you can leave your question at the bottom of this post.

Our live webinar event will be unique because not only is it the first we've hosted outside of our single topic weekly live talks..... but it will give couples an idea of what it is like to work close enough with us to get a taste of what we teach inside our private groups and program curriculum.

The same insights we teach our clients to help them transform their relationship and build the next 20, 30 and 40+ years together.

“Rewire4Success Webinar Event: Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict" is happening Saturday, October 26, 2024 @ 5:00PM PST | 8:00 PM EST.

We want to show you behind the scenes what it really took for Rick to transform himself from being a 25 year p**n addict who had destroyed every past relationship, to a man who now takes pride every day in competing for the title of being "The Most Faithful Man In The World".

So instead of not knowing that there are pieces to your recovery puzzle that are still missing, instead we'll help you see a complete picture (which is always a lot less frustrating than trying to put together a puzzle without one.)
Attend our live “Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict” next Saturday, the 26th to get your questions answered.

✅ To save your seat for that Saturday...

[Click here to register: https://www.rewire4success.life/pl/2148583283]

Once you register, we’ll email you the private zoom link to attend and a button to save it to your calendar.

Save that link and tap it next Saturday night to tune in live.

We'll see you there.

- Katie