03/09/2026
When conflict feels bigger than your vows, there’s a practical way back to connection. One evidence-backed exercise we use in Gottman Method couples therapy is the “Softened Start-Up” paired with intentional forgiveness practices rooted in covenant care. Start by sharing a concern using gentle, specific “I” statements for 60 seconds while your spouse listens without interrupting, then switch roles. Follow with a brief statement of appreciation and a shared, faith-centered commitment to repair — even a simple apology or prayer together. This structure reduces defensiveness, increases mutual understanding, and turns conflict into collaborative problem-solving. We offer faith-informed couples and family support in Plano, TX. Learn more or schedule a session: https://wix.to/iw16jTr