09/25/2025
It’s easy to say, “I just want to drop 30 pounds.” It’s much harder to admit, “food controls me.”
Because it cuts into identity. And if you’re strong-spirited, Type A, driven—a leader—saying that out loud can feel like admitting you’ve lost control in front of the most basic thing. That’s a real stigma. And it hurts.
I understand it because I’ve been there:
Years ago, I was a daily binge eater who was 50 pounds heavier. I had the discipline and willpower that won me national level awards, scholarships, and recognition. Yet with food, I felt powerless.
- At 2 p.m. every day, I had to walk to Down The Road café for a cookie.
- If I ate a square of chocolate, I had to finish the bar.
- I cleared every plate, hungry or not.
- I said ‘no’ to social life because I feared eating in public.
For the whole time, I believed I was weak. And I felt embarrassed because no matter how much effort I put in to ‘manage’ my food issue, I still couldn’t trust myself.
Here’s what I want you to know: You are not weak. And you are not alone.
Strong, successful people struggle with food control more often than you think. In fact, if you’re a high-achiever, chances are you’re also more impulsive. And this very trait that fuel your success is scientifically linked to food addiction.
I see this every week in my Zoom classroom: Fortune 500 executives, TEDx speakers, bestselling authors, entrepreneurs with seven- to nine-figure exits, physicians, neuroscientists, and rising corporate stars. All extraordinary achievers. All wrestling with food behind the scenes.
You aren’t struggling because your mind is weak. You’re struggling because your powerful mind has been wired—psychologically and chemically—to:
- believe food is the enemy;
- unconsciously turn a simple thought of food into powerful cravings;
- make you crave the wrong things;
- push you to finish everything hungry or not;
- tie emotions to eating
The good news? Circuits can be reset.
And once they are, food stops running your life, and you’ll finally live life on your own terms.
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I’m Leslie Chen — an award-winning neuroscience-based weight loss and food addiction coach.
Over the past 10 years, I’ve helped 400+ high-achievers sustainably regain their food freedom and body confidence with ease and fun.