30/05/2022
Infant dyschezia! The most common cause of fussy/gassy babies. It’s really frustrating to try to p**p or pass gas and your muscles won’t coordinate! There is honestly so much more than I can possibly write in one post on this topic. Another thing to try is more skin-to-skin time and baby wearing. Just know that it won’t last forever!
A few extra notes:
1. I will be doing another post on reflux soon, which can have similar but different symptoms. If you are concerned about reflux please reach out to your pediatrician.
2. For formula-fed babies, you can try a formulation that has a probiotic called lactobacillus reuteri.
3. Gripe water - there are many different solutions available on the market and they have mixed results. The solutions that may be the most helpful have fennel and/or chamomile in them.
4. Simethicone gas drops - These are safe to try but likely ineffective.
5. For breastfed babies, most of the time the food mom is eating is NOT the cause of fussiness. If there is any fussiness related to something that mom is eating, though, the most common thing would be dairy. Spicy foods and broccoli are unlikely to cause fussiness. For moms that would like to try diet elimination, you must completely eliminate the type of food for two weeks to see any results.
7. For formula fed babies, ask your pediatrician if it makes sense to try extensively hydrolyzed formula.
When babies are fussy, often we as parents feel like we are doing something wrong and start to get more anxious and worked up. The baby's fussiness may get worse if you are also getting tense. Try taking two deep breaths with your eyes closed, telling yourself that you are doing a good job as a parent (because you are!) and if you need some time away then lay your infant in a safe space (like their crib) and take a 5-10 minute break. It is okay to walk away from your baby while they are crying and come back to them in a better mood.
If you have concerns about post-partum depression or anxiety, please reach out to your doctor. Your mental health is important!
You’re doing great.