09/05/2021
This week’s Faery Oracle card is “Arval Parrot”, which is entirely about communication.
I ask you to think about this past year and a half in terms of your interactions with others.
We are all creatures of various habits, some of which, are determined by our environments. The general public as become even more out of touch with one another. The struggle to communicate and relate to one another is for front in relation to this reading.
Sitting at home and texting a friend, zoom meetings, skype, etc.. are all incredibly impersonal. Many people have lost the ability to notice social cues. The human experience is not one that should have ever become so out of touch with one another and yet, here we are.
So, beyond this blanket of general miscommunication, let’s visit what this card is reminding us to do.
Arval works hard at not just verbal communication; he is also fond of expression. We do “speak” to each other through body language. Can you make eye contact with whom you are speaking to? That’s a signal that a point isn’t coming across. Do you frown as you talk with your friends about your day? Do you pick at your skin as you tell a story?
Spend some time this week being present as you communicate face to face with others. If you need some help, rehearse normal interactions you have daily in the mirror. Ask yourself how those moments might be coming across. This exercise will help you become more conscience of behaviors that you’ve become accustomed to.
Watch your tone when you speak. Whatever verbal communication you are participating in should be done with loving kindness. It’s hard, and it apparently requires “elbow grease”. As Brian, the creator of these cards mentions in the written definition of this card, “ Arval wants you to know that his elbows are fully greased.”
Lastly, express yourself through creative outlets. Sing loudly, dance frantically. Paint your room a soothing color. Expression is, in fact, the best universal languge. At the core, we all know that love is certainly the most pleasant expression of all!