11/10/2025
Doing the things we need to do, and especially the things that we want to do, can feel so impossible when our inner and outer worlds are overwhelming and heavy. This year has been so painful in so many ways, and many times my brain is telling me I just can’t do the things- I just have to wait until the fires turn to smoke and then I can life my life again.
Much of my journey with mental health challenges has been a big long waiting game. Wait until the right diagnosis is made, wait until the right medication cocktail is discovered, wait until the distress is gone and I can think clearly again, have a job like a ‘normal person’, feel at peace with the person I am.
The reality is that, I just. kept. waiting. With this notion that I could only engage in things that felt meaningful to me once this distant day arrived when I would return to a person who felt whole and not so overwhelmingly broken.
What I’ve come to realize is this- the way we survive hellishly painful circumstances is not by waiting to live. Even when we’re at our lowest- what truly saves us is doing the things that are nourishing to us, connecting with those remnants of who we are and what we believe in, even in the tiniest of ways. When we remind ourselves that we have a wholeness that exists beyond the pain, we have a reason to keep trying.
This is why I’ve created Showing Up (in Sweatpants), a group coaching program and course that helps us connect with each other and with ourselves, offer encouragement, accountability, strategies and collective wisdom to start to show up for our lives, even in baby steps, even imperfectly, even in sweatpants.
We have a few more slots available for our first pilot cohort, which begins this Sunday. I would be absolutely honored for you to join.
Check out the link in bio for more information.
Lots of love, Emily