04/16/2026
When a child is screaming, it’s not defiance — it’s a communication breakdown.
Big feelings + not enough words = meltdown.
In those moments, telling them to “use your words” doesn’t help…
because they don’t have the words yet.
This is where you step in 👇
Stay calm.
Name the feeling.
Model the words you think they would say if they could.
“You’re so mad.”
“You wanted more time.”
“Help me.”
The more they hear it, the more likely they are to use it.
That’s how communication grows — not through pressure, but through support.
Save this for the next meltdown (you won’t remember it in the moment 🤍)
and share with a parent who needs this reminder.
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