11/21/2025
I was recently asked what is the biggest red flag behavior to me. The first thing that came to mind is entitlement.
A person who has not done reflective work to understand how to be a part of humanity as an equal, is not someone I would trust with anything.
The reality is, most of those people will never do any type of reflection, because their time and energy is spent on creating barriers to have power over others.
That is an oppressive spirit. That is a person who believes at a core level, that they are more important than other people.
You can immediately think of many political figures, but it’s everywhere. It’s religious leaders who slip into demanding people see them a certain way or insist they be followed.
As you continue to heal, please be careful with anyone who others, isolates, or demeans you. Dismissing this red flag, will cost you more than you’re willing to offer.
You’re healing is important. It doesn’t need to be explained to them, in order for you to remain focused on your truth.
Sending peace and compassion.
I’m glad you’re here.
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