02/19/2026
When emotions take over, it’s easy to react on autopilot — to blame, defend, or avoid discomfort.
However, when we pause and name the emotion we feel, we create space between ourself and the emotion(s) so they don't consume us.
Instead of saying, "I am angry" try naming the emotion and say, "I am feeling strong emotions of anger."
By naming the emotion, we take away its power of becoming our identity (ex "I AM angry") and give ourselves distance from the emotion(s) through small shifts in language (ex "I am FEELING ___________).
We can then choose a response aligned with our values. 🌿
Many Trauma Survivors have a nervous system and brain that can sometimes be stuck in hypervigilance and on high alert due to always needing to scan for danger...from needing to read people's body language and tone of voice or just needing to read the room.
Your safety and survival depended on this.
Nothing is wrong with you.
Remind yourself often that you are safe.
Intentionally relax your body - muscles that feel tense.
You have no bad parts.
Emotions are signals to be listened to.
Being self aware BEFORE we respond to something is the first step in healing.
Have patience with yourself.
Speak kind words to yourself.
Small victories count towards personal growth and healing!🙌🫶🎉
Emotional intelligence isn’t about avoiding emotions — it’s about navigating them with intention.
Every pause, every breath, every moment of reflection helps us turn reactivity into growth and healing. 🌎💫
~Linnea
Begin Within Hope Therapy