04/24/2026
Behavior: Difficulty Getting Started (Task Initiation)
Sometimes the hardest part…
is just starting.
What it can look like:
• Not beginning a task right away
• Sitting without moving
• Needing repeated reminders
• Seeming stuck or unmotivated
It can be easy to think a child is avoiding
or choosing not to do something.
But often… that’s not what’s happening.
Sometimes the task feels overwhelming.
Sometimes they don’t know where to begin.
Sometimes shifting into action is the hardest step.
And in those moments…
it’s not about effort.
It’s about getting started.
As a mom, this is one that taught me
to step in and support
until the skill is developed.
Because what looks like resistance
can actually be a moment of being stuck.
This isn’t just avoidance.
It’s difficulty with initiation.
And when we understand that,
we can offer support that helps them move forward. 💙