12/31/2025
In this deeply moving episode, former Marine and retired police officer **Alan Lynn** joins Scott and Melissa to share his powerful journey through personal crisis, cancer, divorce, and ultimately, rebirth. Alan opens up about hitting rock bottom. He faced suicidal thoughts, battled leukemia, and lost everything, only to discover something greater than all he had lost: *his true self.*
Once a man defined by duty, control, and titles, Alan now lives with self-love, purpose, and inner peace. His story is a powerful reminder of the human spirit’s ability to heal, evolve, and thrive even after life completely breaks you down.
**Top 5 Takeaways from the Episode**
Our identity is not our title.
Alan reminds us that our job, status, or uniform does not define who we are. Real peace comes from discovering who you are beneath the labels.
Self-love is where healing begins.
Alan realized he could not truly help others until he learned how to love and care for himself first. That shift changed everything.
Resilience is a choice.
True resilience is not just about surviving. It is about learning how to live fully and love deeply again after life knocks you down.
Healing starts from within.
Meditation, breathwork, presence, and surrender became Alan’s essential tools. These practices were not only for recovery, but for complete transformation.
You can rebuild your life at any moment.
Through chaos and crisis, Alan found his true calling. Today, he is writing a book and preparing to lead wellness retreats for veterans and first responders.
**Mentioned in the Episode**
Living from a Place of Surrender by Michael Singer
Teachings on presence by Eckhart Tolle
Alan’s upcoming book *Growth Through Chaos* (working title)
Future wellness retreats for veterans and first responders
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