Tamera J Stouton,LPC, EMDR CIT

Tamera J Stouton,LPC, EMDR CIT LPC| EMDR CIT |Trauma-Informed Couples Therapist ✨️I guide healing that transforms how you love, connect, and show up in your relationships and life.

03/26/2026

This is why we do the work.

When a client finally feels seen and heard… that’s nervous system healing in real time.

If you’re a new EMDR therapist learning to trust these moments, you don’t have to do it alone.

DM “CONSULT” 🤍

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What we NOT gone keep doing…missing the pain behind the criticism.Criticism in relationships is often unexpressed hurt.A...
03/26/2026

What we NOT gone keep doing…missing the pain behind the criticism.

Criticism in relationships is often unexpressed hurt.

A partner might say:

“You never listen.”

But underneath that statement might be:

“I feel alone when I try to talk to you.”
When couples learn how to express vulnerability instead of criticism, connection becomes possible again.

This is one of the most powerful shifts that happens in couples therapy.
Which one shows up more in your relationship:

Criticism or vulnerability?

If you want help learning healthier ways to communicate, ask me how you can schedule a consultation with me today!





03/25/2026

That belief your client holds… it’s not truth. It’s what got maladaptively stored.

“I am worthless” is an imprint, not identity.

You don’t have to challenge it.
Trust the process. Let the brain reprocess.

If you’re second guessing yourself as a new EMDR therapist, you’re not alone.

DM me for consultation support.
Follow for more EMDR insights.
And go back to the book… your foundation matters.

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03/25/2026

Mental health matters in your relationship… whether you acknowledge it or not.

You don’t just show up as a partner
you show up as what’s happening inside of you.

So when conflict comes…
that’s not just an argument
that’s activation.

Your shutdown, your tone, your defensiveness
it’s information.

It’s your heart asking
am I safe… do I matter?

And if you don’t slow down and listen
you will keep loving each other from survival.

✨Pause and ask yourself
what is coming up in me right now?

If you’re ready to do the work together..schedule your couples consultation or follow for more relationship insights!

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Most couples don’t feel stuck because they’re incompatible.They feel stuck because they don’t understand their relations...
03/25/2026

Most couples don’t feel stuck because they’re incompatible.

They feel stuck because they don’t understand their relationship cycle.

The cycle may sound like:

“I try to talk and you shut down.”

“I shut down because when we talk I feel attacked.”

Both partners are protecting themselves.

But those protections unintentionally hurt the relationship.

Couples therapy helps partners see the pattern clearly for the first time.

And that awareness changes everything.

Have you ever had the same argument again and again?

If so, it may be time to break the cycle.

Ask ho you can schedule a consultation with me today!





Clarity can change your entire relationship.When couples understand their dynamic, everything shifts:• less defensivenes...
03/24/2026

Clarity can change your entire relationship.

When couples understand their dynamic, everything shifts:
• less defensiveness
• more curiosity
• deeper connection

Assessments help us name what’s been unspoken for too long. And naming it… is the beginning of changing it.

Follow for more clarity in love.
DM to schedule your couples consultation.

Some of us were taught that love means proving a point. But in relationships… that keeps you stuck.Couples therapy isn’t...
03/24/2026

Some of us were taught that love means proving a point. But in relationships… that keeps you stuck.

Couples therapy isn’t about who’s right. It’s about understanding what keeps happening between you.

Do your conversations feel like connection… or competition?

Follow for me more relationship insight or schedule a couples consultation if you’re ready to shift the pattern.

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03/24/2026

Let’s take the pressure off…
Your client doesn’t need to “see it clearly.”
A felt sense, body sensation, or blurry image is enough.
EMDR isn’t about perfect targets.
It’s about the access.
If you’ve been second guessing yourself, you’re not alone.
I support therapists in trusting their clinical decisions.
🤓Follow me for more EMDR insights. DM me or schedule a consultation if you need support. Read the book!
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03/23/2026

Underneath the argument… there’s usually a deeper question being asked.

Do I matter to you?
Will you show up for me?
Am I safe with you?

When those questions go unanswered, you or your partners nervous system reacts… and the conflict escalates.

Healing begins when you learn to respond to the need beneath the words.

What do you think your partner is really asking for in conflict? Share below.

🤓Follow me for relationship insight
Schedule a couples consultation and do your own work

What if your relationship struggles actually make sense?Assessments help us slow down and understand why you both respon...
03/23/2026

What if your relationship struggles actually make sense?

Assessments help us slow down and understand why you both respond the way you do.

Not to blame.
Not to shame.

But to bring compassion into the room.
Because healing begins when we feel seen… not judged.

Follow for compassionate relationship insight. DM to schedule your consultation.

03/23/2026

Couples… this is your space.

Not just to talk
but to understand what keeps happening between you.

The disconnect
The tension
The same argument… different day

We slow it down
We make sense of it
We begin to shift it

🗓 Couples Consultation Hours
Monday Tuesday Wednesday
12:00–12:30 PM

This is for the couple that’s ready to do the work
not just talk about it

✨ Healing your relationship starts with awareness
and continues with intention

👉 DM to schedule your couples consultation

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San Antonio, TX

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Tuesday 6pm - 8pm
Wednesday 6pm - 8pm
Thursday 6pm - 8pm

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