Steady Horse

12/10/2025

Ever feel your horse “leave” you mentally?
Their body is with you… but their mind is somewhere else—ears locked forward, head high, attention gone.

Most riders take this personally.
But a checked-out horse isn’t being stubborn.
They’re confused, unsure, or overwhelmed.

And the fix isn’t more pressure or louder cues.
It’s softness.
The kind of clarity that brings their mind back before their body leaves.

I just released a new blog breaking down how softness re-centers your horse, redirects their focus, and builds the kind of connection that keeps you both safe.

👉 Read the full blog here: https://vist.ly/4hzk2/post/Is-Your-Horse-Checking-Out

If you want to go deeper, there’s also a free training available for a limited time that shows you how to create calmer, safer rides.

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12/10/2025

Moments like these — a soft step, a loose rein, a calm mind — tell me Slate’s finally choosing connection over tension.

People often think progress requires schooling nonstop, but quiet exercises done anywhere build the most trust.
This is how confidence grows: one intentional foot placement at a time.

A big shout-out to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC ❤️ Grateful for the chance to help Slate take the next steps in his journey.

👇 What’s one area you want to build more confidence with your horse?

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12/09/2025

Teaching Slate to navigate tight spaces is about trust, not pressure.

I keep the setup steady so he can learn the world won’t fall apart when something feels uncomfortable.

A big shout-out to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC ❤️ Their dedication is the reason Slate even had a chance to be here today.

👇 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: https://vist.ly/4htei

12/08/2025

A horse that rushes through narrow spaces is a horse that isn’t fully connected.

Slate handled these tight gaps with softness and thoughtfulness, and that’s what keeps riders safe..

Huge thanks to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC ❤️ for trusting us with his journey.

👇 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: https://vist.ly/4hn4u

12/06/2025

A horse’s hesitation is never random — it’s communication.

When Slate slowed down in this little “chair maze,” he was checking to see whether he could trust my leadership.
That’s the beauty of feel — it turns doubt into connection.

And a huge shout-out to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC ❤️ — Slate is only here today because of their trust.

🎥 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 ➡️ https://vist.ly/4hgn8

12/05/2025

A lot of horses struggle with pressure because they’ve never been shown how to think their way through it.

This exercise with Slate teaches him to stay soft, follow the feel, and trust the process — not panic.

A big shout-out to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC ❤️ Their dedication is the reason Slate had a chance to be here today.

👉 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: https://vist.ly/4hc7m

12/04/2025

This is a trust exercise — not a trick.

I held my position and let Slate learn the chairs weren’t dangerous. When a horse understands we won’t lead them into harm, they start choosing us over fear.

Slate’s journey began thanks to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC ❤️ Without them, none of this would be possible.

🎥 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨 𝐨𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞 → https://vist.ly/4h7ec

12/03/2025

If your horse has ever nipped, swung their head, or searched your pockets for treats, here’s the truth:

They’re not being mean — they’re being a horse.

Biting is instinct-driven, not attitude-driven. And when you understand why it happens, you can finally teach a safer, clearer way.

This week’s blog breaks down the real causes behind biting and the simple boundaries that prevent it.

👉 https://vist.ly/4h3hp/post/instinct-behind-the-bite

If fear or uncertainty are stealing your confidence, our free training will help you get it back.
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12/03/2025

Stop forcing a braced horse — teach it to choose you instead.

When he braced I rewarded the forward step — simple timing that produces real softness and faster responsiveness.

A big shout-out to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC — their dedication is the reason Slate even had a chance to be here today. We’re honored to be part of his journey forward.

🎥 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 → https://vist.ly/4g28y

12/02/2025

Ever lead your horse through a narrow space and feel them rush past you?

That moment tells you exactly how connected your horse really is.
When I worked Slate through the chute, the mud, and the tight gaps, I wasn’t testing obedience — I was testing relaxation and leadership.

A big shout-out to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC Slate wouldn’t even be here today without their hard work and belief in him.

🎥 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞: https://vist.ly/4gugt

12/01/2025

If your horse pulls, pulling back won’t fix it.

You want a horse that wants to be with you — not one who flees when things get narrow. These short leading exercises teach clarity and safety so grooming and handling become calm, not confrontational.

A big shout-out to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC ❤️ Their dedication is the reason Slate had a chance to be here today. We’re honored to be part of his journey forward.

🎥 𝐅𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧 → https://vist.ly/4gpc5
Share a moment when your horse surprised you with trust.

11/29/2025

Slate had every reason to brace, push, and protect himself when he first came to us… but today you’ll see a different side of him.

This video walks through the leading exercises that helped him soften, trust, and stay with me — even in tight, uncomfortable spaces. It’s amazing what a horse will give when they finally feel safe.

And a huge thank-you to Heart of Phoenix Equine Rescue, INC for believing in Slate long before this moment. This wouldn’t be possible without the work they put in. Truly grateful for the heart they have for horses like him.

Watch Slate’s full session here 👇
https://youtu.be/OkDOk7-q0Pw

➡️ If your horse braces, pulls, or disconnects, this video will really help.
➡️ Drop a comment if you want more videos like this.

Teaching a horse to lead softly is one of the most important foundations you’ll ever build. In this video, I’m working with Slate — a pony who came to us wit...