Stillwater Counseling & Coaching Services

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Offering individual and partners counseling services for the treatment of PTSD, trauma, stress, anxiety and depression with the use of CBT, EMDR, LENS Neurofeedback, therapeutic art & sand tray therapy.

We appreciate our Veterans! They continue to serve by offering therapy services to those who are on active duty, transit...
11/11/2025

We appreciate our Veterans! They continue to serve by offering therapy services to those who are on active duty, transitioning out, or living the veteran life.
-Dr. Caroline Gonzales, LPC-S
-Dr. Melissa Lee, LCSW
-Terri Lewis, LPC
-Joe Martinez, LPC Associate
-Angela Messerlie, LMSW
-Valerie Montgomery, LMSW
-Ben Gonzales, Executive Coach
Thank you for your military service and for your continued efforts to heal past trauma in the community.

11/07/2025

FURLOUGHED FEDERAL EMPLOYEES

For any federal employee needing this information

RESOURCES:

Bank of America: announced assistance available to furloughed Federal employees. Call the priority assistance line 844.219.0690.

Chase Bank: Chase today announced efforts to help its customers who are U.S. government employees affected by the U.S. government shutdown. Here’s the special line they set up 1-888-356-0023.

Congressional Federal Credit Union: For more information on our Relief Line of Credit or any of our assistance programs, contact our Member Service Representatives at 800-491-2328 or stop by one of our branch locations.

Fed Choice: They’re offering quite a few different options to assist – for existing and new members.

Interior Federal Credit Union: They’re offering a special loan for both member and non-member furloughed Federal workers. Net paycheck up to $15,000, interest free up to 30 days. Members may apply for a limit up to the equivalent of 2 net paychecks. More offers are available on the site or call 800-914-8619

Navy Federal Credit Union: These guys are offering a special loan program. Read the FAQs PDF from this link to see if you qualify or call 1-888-842-6328

PayPal: PayPal has made a very generous offer. They’ve allocated $25 million to fund interest-free cash advances to our furloughed Federal workers that need assistance right now. This is for both new and existing PayPal Credit customers. Minimum loan is $250 with a maximum cash advance of $500. Your account does need to be in good standing if you’re an existing PayPal Credit customer. Existing customers call 1-877-689-1975. For new accounts, apply here first, then after approval call 1-877-689-1975.

U.S. Bank: Will waive all late fees if you miss a mortgage payment due to the shutdown. Also mentioned they will defer first payment dates for new mortgages.

U.S. Employees Credit Union: USECU is also offering shutdown loans, but only until Tuesday, January 15th. Call (312) 922.5310 to get help.

SunTrust: SunTrust didn’t make a specific offer, but they did make a public announcement that they have programs in place to help clients affected by the shutdown.

Synchrony Bank: These guys handle store cards for Amazon, Lowes, Walmart, JCPenney, Chevron/Texaco, and many other large nationwide companies that you might do business with on a day-to-day basis. They are allowing affected customers to defer payments until after the shutdown. Contact them for more information.

Union Plus: For union members, there are a great number of options available if you’re with Union Plus. Call them at 800-472-2005 to ask about these offers: $300 Furlough Grant for eligible Union Plus credit card holders, Mortgage Assistance Loan & $300 Grant: payment grace period for your Union Plus Life and Accident Insurance, payment grace period for Union Plus Auto Insurance, and payment grace period for Union Plus Life and Accident Insurance.

Wells Fargo: Here’s a full list of all shutdown assistance lines at Wells Fargo. They’ve got a few different options to help depending on the services you have with their bank.

Furlough Grants

FEEA-NARFE: This is an awesome offer that every furloughed Federal worker needs to take advantage of. FEEA-NARFE fund is offering $100 grants to active federal employee members who are not receiving a paycheck during the current shutdown due to being furloughed or working in excepted status. To apply, visit the FEEA website.

Thrift Savings Plan

TSP Plan News and Announcements: TSP allows for the suspension of loan payments when you go into non-pay status. They do not require documentation about your furlough currently. Missing one or two payments will not cause your loan to go into default. Log in to your account to check your status or simply call the Thrift Line at 1-877-968-3778.

Toyota Financial Services & Lexus Financial Services: Affected lease and finance customers in good standing with their accounts may be eligible to take advantage of up to two months of finance contract payment extensions or lease deferred payments. Toyota Financial Services call 800-874-8822 and Lexus Financial Services call 800-874-7050.

Hyundai Capital: Hyundai will extend all Hyundai Capital auto loans and lease payments for 30 days for current Hyundai owners who are federal government employees furloughed during the shutdown. Impacted consumers should contact Hyundai Motor Finance at 1-800-523-4030 to take advantage of this offer.

Kia Motors Finance: Kia has announced they’re offering deferred payments of 30 days. If you’ve been affected by the current Government Shutdown and need assistance from Kia Finance, please contact us at 1-866-331-5632.

Ford Credit, GM Financial, & Mercedes-Benz Financial Services: It has been reported that these companies are among those providing qualified customers options such as payment deferrals, late fee waivers and special care lines to address their individual problems, though official announcements from these companies have not been released online.

Mobile Telephone Service Providers

AT&T: Will assist with adjusting late fees, providing extensions, and revising payment schedules.

Sprint: Will provide short-term payment solutions. Call 1-888-211-4747

T-Mobile: Offering short-term assistance and can spread out service payments over time. Call 1-877-746-0909 or 611 from a T-Mobile device.

Verizon: Offering flexible payment options and has a Promise to Pay program to set payments for a future date. Call 1-866-266-1445.

Rental Home Assistance

National Rental Home Council: Represents many of the nation’s largest operators of single-family rental homes. They’re offering deferred rent payment options with no late fees to any renter who has been furloughed.

OPM Sample Letters for Creditors and Mortgage Companies: OPM created these sample letters for Federal workers to contact their landlords, mortgage lenders, and utilities, to request help during the shutdown.

National Food Resources & Advice

Feeding America: These guys have a nationwide network of 200 food banks. From those food banks, they have 60,000 partner pantries from which they can serve every community across the United States. This is an awesome resource, and they have already begun serving Federal employees affected by the government shutdown.

Your School District: To save on food and ensure your kid eats breakfast and/or lunch free (less stress and worry for you), notify the district of your furlough. No income is an emergency and normally qualifies you for the free meal program.

Home, Auto & Life Insurance Relief

MetLife: For those not receiving a paycheck from the federal government because of the current shutdown, MetLife Auto & Home may grant a one-time, 30-day grace period on your payment of premium on a MetLife Auto & Home policy. Members must request this one-time allowance by calling 1-800-GET-MET8. Certain restrictions apply, and premium remains due after delay expires.

Fidelity & Guaranty Life Insurance Company: To help the nearly 27,000 AFGE members who currently have a policy with the company during this government shutdown, the company “will keep the policy-in-force by waving the cost of insurance charges for the next 30 days.”. Policies beginning with the letter "Y" call: 844-800-9146, all other policies call: 888-513-8797

Other Notable Mentions for Relief & Assistance.

Rent-A-Center (Benefits Plus Membership): If your account was up to date at the time of furlough and you are a part of benefits plus you may be eligible for a payment waiver based on your state: “Involuntary Unemployment Payment Waiver: Losing a job is hard and making payments while unemployed is even harder. Fortunately, your Membership waives your payments when you are involuntarily unemployed. Whether you were fired, laid off, suspended, or are out of work due to a labor dispute or strike, your payments are covered for up to four (4) months, up to $1,000, or when you’re able to return to work.”

National Freebie Offers

U.S. Office of Personnel Management: Their fact sheet states that federal employees may be eligible for unemployment compensation administered by state unemployment insurance agencies. So, eligibility is determined by state law, not on the Federal level, which may work in your favor.

USAA Are offering deferments for all loans and credit card payments.

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Need a small group therapeutic and artistic way to process what is going on lately? Reach out to Angela to RSVP.
09/23/2025

Need a small group therapeutic and artistic way to process what is going on lately? Reach out to Angela to RSVP.

Join us for an event filled with laughter, deeper conversations, and mindful practices designed to gain insight into you...
09/04/2025

Join us for an event filled with laughter, deeper conversations, and mindful practices designed to gain insight into your
relationships with others as well as yourself. This in-person experience will challenge you to step out of your comfort
zone and embrace the beauty of face-to-face intimacy with other human beings. Whether you're single, in a relationship,
or just looking to connect with others on a deeper level, this event is for you. Come with an open heart and leave with a
renewed sense of connection.
The experience will teach you:
● The 5 levels of intimacy and how to practice them
● Be able to discern between trust and risk
● Practice embodied boundary exercises
● Experience a deeper connection with a community of like-minded people
Instructors: Coach Caroline Gonzales and Coach Ben Gonzales
Register: https://classes.instituteforsexuality.com/SanAntonio_Lvl2_TIE
Cost: $40/person, $35/each if you bring a friend/partner/family member
Contact: beyondtrainingevents@yahoo.com if you have questions

We are holding a single-session therapeutic art group for adults 18+.  Cost $35 includes art supplies. Led by Angela Mes...
08/15/2025

We are holding a single-session therapeutic art group for adults 18+. Cost $35 includes art supplies. Led by Angela Messerlie, LCSW Intern (supervised by Lauren Evenski, LCSW-S). RSVP by emailing amesserlie@stillwaterccs.net.

07/26/2025

Join us for an event filled with laughter, deeper conversations, and mindful practices designed to gain insight into your
relationships with others as well as yourself. This in-person experience will challenge you to step out of your comfort
zone and embrace the beauty of face-to-face intimacy with other human beings. Whether you're single, in a relationship,
or just looking to connect with others on a deeper level, this event is for you. Come with an open heart and leave with a
renewed sense of connection.
The experience will teach you:
● The 5 levels of intimacy and how to practice them
● Be able to discern between trust and risk
● Practice embodied boundary exercises
● Experience a deeper connection with a community of like-minded people
Instructors: Dr. Caroline Gonzales, LPC-S, and Coach Ben Gonzales
Register: https://classes.instituteforsexuality.com/sales-page-48ccacad-1544-4108-8f3e-71287c663488
Cost: $40/person, $35/each if you bring a friend/partner/family member
Contact: beyondtrainingevents@yahoo.com if you have questions

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07/23/2025

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In light of the recent events in the Hill Country area, we offer our deepest condolences to those who have been affected...
07/05/2025

In light of the recent events in the Hill Country area, we offer our deepest condolences to those who have been affected in any way by this tragedy and disaster.
If anyone needs telehealth or in-person options for grief, loss or trauma counseling, most of our therapists offer this service and are EMDR-trained. We also offer low-cost/sliding scale for those who may not have insurance.
You're in our hearts and on our minds...and we are here to help.

05/20/2025
Invest in your relationships! The Intimacy Experiment workshop will teach you how to:Communicate effectively ⇒Build trus...
05/20/2025

Invest in your relationships! The Intimacy Experiment workshop will teach you how to:
Communicate effectively ⇒Build trust and intimacy ⇒Resolve conflict constructively. Don't miss this opportunity to create the connections you desire. For individuals or partners.
Instructors: Dr. Caroline Gonzales, PsyD, LPC-S & Relationship Coach Ben Gonzales
Date: June 14, 2025, Time: 10:00 am to 12:00 pm
❖ Register now: https://classes.instituteforsexuality.com/sales-page-48ccacad-1544-4108-8f3e-71287c663488
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The Intimacy Experiment is a transformative 2 hour event where you'll explore the skills we need for intimacy and intimate communication through a series of safe, fun and insightful activities. This event is fully clothed and all activities are optional and negotiable. You will learn about yourself....

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San Antonio, TX

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 7pm
Tuesday 9am - 7pm
Wednesday 9am - 7pm
Thursday 9am - 7pm
Friday 9am - 4pm
Saturday 9am - 7pm
Sunday 12pm - 6pm

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+12108421777

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