03/03/2026
You don’t burn out because you’re incapable.
You burn out because you keep trying to power through with anxiety.
If you’re an anxious ADHD girlie, you probably:
• start in panic
• push in perfectionism
• skip transitions
• shame yourself when your brain stalls
And then wonder why you’re exhausted. 🙋🏼♀️
Instead, try:
✨ Soft Starts
✨ Tiny Starts
✨ Good-Enough Mode
✨ Externalizing Shame
Burnout decreases when your nervous system feels safer.
Productivity works better when it isn’t powered by fear.
You don’t need more discipline.
You need regulation, realistic effort, and less self-attack.
Save this for the next time your brain says
“Do more or you’re failing.”
And if you’re ready to stop white-knuckling your way through life — I’m currently accepting new clients for in-person sessions in San Diego and secure remote therapy throughout California.
Link in bio to schedule an intake