Balance and Bloom Therapy

Balance and Bloom Therapy In person in San Diego or virtual throughout CA, AZ, & VA.

Balance and Bloom Therapy is a trauma informed modern therapy practice that specializes in CPTSD, eating disorders, couples, LGBTQ+, and EMDR for adults, couples, and families.

04/29/2026

I cried on a run the other day.

It felt like it literally came out of nowhere. I was about 2 miles into a long run and I knew I had some stress and overwhelm building up about all I have to get done before the move.. but my default setting is to power through and ignore how I ACTUALLY feel.

Eldest daughters, the ones who chronically do it all, you feel me? 🫶🏼

All of a sudden things just became clearer to me and the tears started flowing. Running opened up a space for me to process what I was feeling without holding it all in using natural bilateral stimulation, which we use in EMDR.

Here’s why this works:
The motion of right foot - left foot movement and that consistent back-and-forth pattern engages both hemispheres of the brain in a steady, predictable way.

That rhythmic motion, plus focusing on your breathing, and being in your body can have some pretty amazing impacts on how you process the tough stuff.

AND while walking/running can be supportive, it’s not in any way a replacement for structured EMDR with a trained therapist.

Think of it as:
* a regulation tool
* a light processing aid
* a way to continue integration between sessions

I didn’t cry the whole run, but I really let myself feel it. Things kinda cleared up in my head about my struggle and I let grief and sadness take up space. I gained some clarity on how I wanted to show up.. not in a perfect way but a REAL way. And I finished that run feeling lighter and more at peace.

Anyway, running may not be for everyone. Walking can be juuuust as good. If you’re looking for actual EMDR with a trained therapist, our therapists gotchu ✨

Link in bio to schedule an intro call 🔗

Please remember that social media is not a replacement for professional mental health services. It is here for educational and entertainment purposes.

I’ve been noticing this trend in my work and I just needed to name it. So many clients of mine are partnered with people...
04/24/2026

I’ve been noticing this trend in my work and I just needed to name it.

So many clients of mine are partnered with people who are service members who move and they have these limiting beliefs that they can’t have thriving careers or businesses because they are constantly starting over or are just the default parent who have to “bloom where they are planted”. But without support and built in systems…. They don’t quite have that sun and water to grow.

That’s literally where I come in. I have done TONS of moves and have built a thriving group practice that is continuing to grow.

I’d love to help you through all the changes and challenges. Reach out if this resonates with you 🩷

03/21/2026

This audio really got me this morning 😮‍💨

Looking forward to a therapist in CA? We got you 🩷 Click the link in bio to schedule a free intro call!

“I had a great childhood! I had food and a roof over my head and there wasn’t anything crazy big that happened.”Is what ...
03/20/2026

“I had a great childhood! I had food and a roof over my head and there wasn’t anything crazy big that happened.”

Is what I hear from sooo many of my clients. Who are also saying “but I’m sooo anxious and depressed. I have low self esteem, and my relationships are suffering.”

As we unpack what their childhood looked like.. we slowly sort out traumatic experiences that just seemed normal to them.. but we’re less than ideal for their nervous systems.

When we view their symptoms through the lens of trauma.. it makes sense they would feel so incredibly anxious.. because they have been in flight or fight since they were a young child as they survived the unendurable.

There is space for you to be heard. To unpack what it was like for little you.

It’s not just “how it was”. It was sh*tty experiences and your pain is valid.

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Our team of therapists are accepting new clients in California. Click the link in my bio to schedule an intro call. ✨

Please remember that social media is not a replacement for professional mental health services. It is here for educational and entertainment purposes. ✨

03/19/2026

Annnddddd we have a people pleaser, folks!

Tell me about your family “superpower” that you realized later in life was actually something quite deeper 🫠

03/13/2026

Behind the scenes is literally just a mom who gets it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

If you’re a mom whose realized she’s got some stuff she wants to work on from her childhood, give me a holler.

These are the little ones who are here with you as you grow, heal, break old patterns, and start new ones. Our team spec...
03/09/2026

These are the little ones who are here with you as you grow, heal, break old patterns, and start new ones.

Our team specializes in CPTSD and trauma healing. We’re guided by a relational and attachment lens while incorporating evidence based modalities such as EMDR, IFS, EFT & more.

Each therapist offers a free 15 min intro call to see if it’s a good fit. Schedule your free call today!

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Just the perspective I needed. ✨
03/06/2026

Just the perspective I needed. ✨

“I had a great childhood! I had food and a roof over my head and there wasn’t anything crazy big that happened.”Is what ...
04/05/2024

“I had a great childhood! I had food and a roof over my head and there wasn’t anything crazy big that happened.”

Is what I hear from sooo many of my clients. Who are also saying “but I’m sooo anxious and depressed. I have low self esteem, and my relationships are suffering.”

As we unpack what their childhood looked like.. we slowly sort out traumatic experiences that just seemed normal to them.. but we’re less than ideal for their nervous systems.

When we view their symptoms through the lens of trauma.. it makes sense they would feel so incredibly anxious.. because they have been in flight or fight since they were a young child as they survived the unendurable.

There is space for you to be heard. To unpack what it was like for little you.

It’s not just “how it was”. It was sh*tty experiences and your pain is valid.

Follow me .and.bloom for more people pleasing and trauma healing content!

I am currently accepting new clients virtually in CA and AZ. Click the link in my bio to schedule an intro call. ✨

Please remember that social media is not a replacement for professional mental health services. It is here for educational and entertainment purposes. ✨

“I had a great childhood! I had food and a roof over my head and there wasn’t anything crazy big that happened.”Is what ...
04/05/2024

“I had a great childhood! I had food and a roof over my head and there wasn’t anything crazy big that happened.”

Is what I hear from sooo many of my clients. Who are also saying “but I’m sooo anxious and depressed. I have low self esteem, and my relationships are suffering.”

As we unpack what their childhood looked like.. we slowly sort out traumatic experiences that just seemed normal to them.. but we’re less than ideal for their nervous systems.

When we view their symptoms through the lens of trauma.. it makes sense they would feel so incredibly anxious.. because they have been in flight or fight since they were a young child as they survived the unendurable.

There is space for you to be heard. To unpack what it was like for little you.

It’s not just “how it was”. It was sh*tty experiences and your pain is valid.

Follow me .and.bloom for more people pleasing and trauma healing content!

I am currently accepting new clients virtually in CA and AZ. Click the link in my bio to schedule an intro call. ✨

Please remember that social media is not a replacement for professional mental health services. It is here for educational and entertainment purposes. ✨

How does this statement resonate with you 👇🏼“I fu**ed up” vs. “I’m such a f**k up”Because there is definitely a differen...
03/11/2024

How does this statement resonate with you 👇🏼

“I fu**ed up” vs. “I’m such a f**k up”

Because there is definitely a difference!

Guilt is a feeling you get when you did something wrong, or perceived you did something wrong. Shame is a feeling that your whole self is wrong, and it may not be related to a specific behavior or event.

When you feel guilty about the wrong thing you did, you can take steps to make up for it and put it behind you. But feeling shame is much more complex. You may have been convinced early on that YOU ARE the thing that’s wrong so it may feel hard to really “come back” to feeling more positive about yourself.

People who grew up in abusive environments, can easily get the message that they are undeserving, inadequate, and inferior.

Shame literally gets woven into your self esteem, self image, and self concept.

So how do we change this?

1. Talk about what you’re feeling with someone who is safe. (Support system or therapist)
2. Journal to really express and explore some of these deep feelings.
3. Have some self compassion for yourself, are we being a bully to ourself or a mentor?
4. Connecting with your inner child and being who they needed back then when they weren’t feeling like a “good kid”

Share with someone who may need this!

Follow me .and.bloom for more people pleasing and trauma healing content!

I am currently accepting new clients virtually in CA and AZ. Click the link in my bio to schedule an intro call. ✨

Please remember that social media is not a replacement for professional mental health services. It is here for educational and entertainment purposes. ✨

Address

4550 Kearny Villa Road
San Diego, CA
92123

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 9am - 5pm
Wednesday 9am - 5pm
Thursday 9am - 9pm
Friday 9am - 5pm
Sunday 9am - 5pm

Telephone

+16194310035

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