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Dece Sterling

≫ Be full of yourself™
Your Expression. Your Needs. Your Standards.

For the women who has always felt different - and is done pretending she needs permission.
💎 Complimentary Power Leak Audit (60 min) ↓ Imagine a healing center like a restaurant with an array of international and domestic items hand-crafted for your unique energy optimization. You still get soul-food, but your group orders inspiration and emotional health in a fun and creative environment. Though food can do the same, Dennector is more of an energy movement in the body and mind through tangible practices and connecting to yourself holistically in group settings.

02/18/2026

Your nervous system won’t let you live a life you have to fake.

If you haven’t found the committed partnership you want yet, you’re not behind.

You’re not lost. You’re not crazy.

You just haven’t landed.

And you can feel the moment you start negotiating yourself.

If any of this is you:

°you’ve lost years to “almost”

°you’re tired in a way rest doesn’t fix

°you stay open past your knowing

°you explain instead of ending

°you’re admired, but not met

The solution isn’t avoiding men, avoiding relationships, or waiting for “the right time.”

The solution isn’t more effort.

It’s being met.

Because when you’re finally met:

°your nervous system settles

°your yes/no gets clean

°ambiguity collapses

°your standards enforce themselves

This is not for women who would rather be chosen than met.

This is not for women still willing to negotiate themselves.

Apply for a private Complimentary Power Leak Audit.

02/04/2026

Some of us didn't grow up. We became emotional adults.

02/03/2026

For a long time, being different felt like something to manage.

Today, it feels like something to stand in.

02/01/2026

• Overthinking every decision
• Performing to feel chosen or safe
• Managing other people’s emotions
• Confusing avoidance with intuition
• Abandoning your needs to keep connection

And this is what starts:

• Self-trust under pressure
• Clear, embodied decision-making
• Emotional responsibility where it belongs
• Spaciousness with time and energy
• Living from “I am enough. I am plenty.”

Day to day, that looks like:

• Pausing instead of explaining
• Letting discomfort pass without fixing it
• Honoring boundaries without justification
• Resting without guilt
• Trusting your no

Get Full of Yourself is my 6-month, one-on-one coaching container for women who are deeply self-aware, spiritually grounded, and practical — and are done collecting insight without real change.

This isn’t dating advice.

This isn’t healing language.

It’s identity-level change.

If you’re ready to stop performing and start living from self-trust,

you’re invited to apply.

01/10/2026

I’ve always been a mirror, the kind that made people uncomfortable.
It made me the odd one.
Now it makes me the one women trust when they’re done lying to themselves.
In our space, I don’t reflect your surface - I reflect your self-worth, your truth, and the patterns you’ve outgrown.
Then we clean your self-expression until your love, your life, and your leadership finally rise to meet your standard.

01/05/2026

Everyone sees the wedding. Few people talk about the freedom a safe marriage gives you.

The best gift God has ever given me is freedom, and yes, it came packaged as my husband, Dr. Sterling.

Not because a man completed me.

Because I finally chose the kind of love that does not require me to shrink.

Freedom to express my needs.
Freedom to express my dreams.
Freedom in self expression.
Freedom to say what helps me feel safe in marriage, and be met with care.

And I know you feel like this kind of man does not exist.

Because you have always been the different one, even in your own family.

You are successful in life.
You are high functioning.
You have done deep work on yourself.
You move with God.

And still, you crave something so simple it almost feels dangerous to want.

A stable man.
A grounded man.
A man who commits to you and your union.
Who sees all parts of you, accepts your eccentricities, and gives you room to live fully.

But most people have not built the capacity to hold you.
So you filter yourself.
You soften your truth.
You edit your needs.
You try to be easier to love.

Not because you are fake.

Because you learned that being fully expressed came with a cost.

So you tried to become normal in love.

You did therapy thinking, once I heal enough, relationships will finally work.

You went deeper into astrology hoping it would explain why you can figure out so much of life on your own, yet love still does not match what you give

And at some point, you got tired.
So now you avoid it altogether.

Relationships. Men. Hope.

Here is what I want you to know.

You do not need to become normal to be chosen by a good man.

You need to become anchored.
Anchored in self worth.
Anchored in self expression.
Anchored in standards you actually keep when chemistry shows up.

You decide who you are.
You decide who you want to attract.

Because you are the expert of your own needs, you can identify what kind of love actually fits you and what kind of life can hold you

I’m not here to be the authority over your truth.

I’m a mirror.

I reflect your patterns, your words, and your standards back to you until what you want and how you’re living finally matches.

And yes, this work requires bravery.

But you’ve been brave your whole life.

DM me FULL for a gifted coaching session.
On the house, my treat. No strings attached.
Come experience your mirror.

08/19/2025

The words you whisper to yourself when no one is watching are shaping everything about your life.

They are guiding the way you show up in love
They are deciding how far you rise in your career
They are even influencing how much money you allow yourself to receive

Most people never stop to notice the dialogue running inside of them. They wonder why they feel heavy, why opportunities slip away, or why they keep second guessing themselves.

I want to give you the gift of awareness. I am offering a gifted 60 minute self talk audit. Together we will uncover the voice that has been directing your choices and open the door to a new language within you that lifts instead of limits.

If your heart knows it is time to stop fighting with yourself and start building a relationship with yourself that feels like home, send me a message with the words self talk.

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Chicago, IL

Telephone

+16197242989

Website

https://beacons.ai/befullofyourself

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