Chronically Ry

01/20/2026

My body may not function as I thought it would at 34. My life’s timeline doesn’t look *anything* like I imagined it would. But this life is so so short and I think I have ended up where I was meant to be. I am such a lucky lil cr*p. ♿️❤️

01/20/2026

Me as a child. 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

There was this one other child in my 3rd grade class - his name was Dje (pronounced Day) - who would upset other children like this. He definitely caught some s**t, as did I.

Listen...we were trying to help. It was 1980. People needed to know. F**k.

01/18/2026

Our AirBnb description stated the beach was “just 78 steps away!” Someone set out to ensure that was correct as soon as we got to there. 😅 but yeah, I’m the only diagnosed neurospicy human in this relationship…😅😅
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This is my first time in Hawaii and I’m such a lucky human to have Keven to push/carry/half drag me all over tarnation and not even bat an eye when I said I wanted to spend my birthday with the dinosaurs. I love this ridiculous man so much. 😅
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Today starts part ✌🏻 of our Hawaiian Adventure- Welcome to Maui Y’all! 🌺🌴♿️

[VD: Ry, a white femme presenting human with reddish brown hair in low ponytail braids, is seen recording in selfie mode. She’s in her wheelchair being pushed by her partner Keven- a cis-male with olive colored skin and dark brown curly hair- who is counting in th background and Ry speaks to the camera. The camera then switches to show their eventual sunset viewing location- a clifside of Maui Beach. The camera pans over a fairly populated beach to rocks in the ocean- all with a gorgeous Hawaiian sunset in the background.]

01/17/2026

Since hitting my 30s (& meeting Keven) I started choosing to spend my birthdays how I ACTUALLY want to. Last year? The SD Science Museum. This year? I spent the celebration of my 34th trip around the sun with my favorite person chasing Dinosaurs and movie sets in Hawaii. I am such a lucky lil rainbow neurospicy human 😂🦖🦕🌺❤️
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01/17/2026

Thank y’all so much!! 🎂❤️

01/15/2026

I made some new friends here in Hawaii! 🐦‍⬛🌺♿️
Also, def trying to show that I’m a wheelchair user when I flip the camera, not just my t*ts, I promise 😅😂😂

[VD: Ry records a small brown bird with one foot while on vacation in Hawaii. Soon he’s joined by his friend, who is missing a toe. Ry then tries to show that she is also disabled (wheelchair user with an ostomy), but she forgets the camera is zoomed in on the birds so when she flips the camera on herself, all that is seen is a nice rack in a turquoise bathing suit top and Ry’s smile.]

01/12/2026

I just saw Erin over at ‘s video about not being able to access the disabled changing rooms at and needed to show just how often this happens. This photo was taken just a couple weeks ago while out bathing suit shopping near my home in San Diego. I’m always pleasantly surprised when the store HASN’T used their accessible changing room as a closet. This shouldn’t be the norm. Do better y’all.
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[VD: Ry, a white femme presenting human with rainbow glasses, brown hair pulled off her face, and a yellow shirt, uses the green screen setting to record herself speaking over a photo. In the photo. In the photo you can see Ry seated in her black wheelchair wearing a lime green backwards baseball cap over her messy wavy shoulder length hair. She’s in an accessible changing room completely surrounded by cardboard boxes.]

01/09/2026

✨Happy Sparkle Shoe Friday Fridays!✨
I hope you all have a fabulous Friday and that you enjoyed the Season 2 Premier of The Pitt as much as I did.
Also, this is what I would look like if I an extra on the show…*wink* *nudge* come onnnnnn! The more disability in healthcare representation the better!!
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No comments about my dirty a$$ mirror. It’s been a long week. 😅😂😂😂
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01/08/2026

On today’s episode of CCCR, we’ll be talking about different types of “stares” we receive as disabled humans as well the proper way to compliment someone’s mobility aid/disability equipment. ♿️
What do you think? Do you like it when people compliment your disability equipment/mobility aid? Drop your comments/stories below. As always, I love to hear from y’all!✌🏻
[VD: Ry, a white femme-presenting human with reddish brown hair wavy hair pulled off her face- speaks to the camera from her car as she’s struck in traffic coming home from work. She’s wearing seafoam greenish scrubs and pizza earrings like the professional she is.]

01/04/2026

Wanted to show off our holiday trimmings since we’re starting to take everything down today. ❤️♿️🏳️‍🌈🎄🚴 we have a LOT of varied interests in this family…😅

Keven Lee

01/03/2026

I just needed my 1st photo of 2026 to accurately represent my mental state heading into this year:
Reading the 1st book of the Game Changers (see: Heated Rivalry) series while wearing my Shoresy jersey and listening to the Heated Rivalry soundtrack on loop and counting down the days until the next ‘Ember & Ice’ drop.
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Yep. I’d say that sums it up quite nicely. 😅
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Anyone else on this train with me? Cause I’m having flashbacks to tumblr in the 2010s during my Glee/Klaine obsession. IYKYK 😅😅😅😅

01/02/2026

Spent the last day of 2025 doing what I love most: watching a show with my bestie!
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We have seen SO many amazing shows thanks to - absolutely did NOT disappoint. 😍👑
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No matter how many shows we see (or where we try to sit 😅) the team at the SD Civic Theater always makes sure my visit is as accessible as possible. And I have YET to find any of the accessible seats to have a bad view! A theater loving wheelie girl’s dream! ♿️🎭
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Can’t wait to see just how many shows we make it to in 2026!!!
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