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04/23/2026

April holding both truths at once: Alcohol Responsibility Month and National Stress Awareness Month. That’s not a coincidence.

So many of us are carrying more than we were ever meant to hold alone, and somewhere along the way, we were taught that a drink at the end of the day is how you “take the edge off.”

But numbing isn’t the same as healing and temporary relief often comes with a longer-term cost—mentally, emotionally, and physically. I don’t personally cope my stress with alcohol but as a society many of “we” do but there are other options.

What if, instead of escaping our stress, we supported ourselves through it?

✨ A walk outside instead of a pour
✨ Play and laughter instead of shutdown
✨ Deep breaths instead of distraction
✨ Connection instead of coping alone

You don’t need to numb what you’re feeling.
You deserve support that actually helps you feel better.

If this resonates, consider this your gentle invitation to try one small shift today.

I am a proud parent ambassador of and help to share their mission of preventing drunk driving, underage drinking, and a lifetime of conversations around alcohol responsibility. It starts with me. And it starts with you.

Want to get rid of power struggles and standoffs? No problem! Want to lesson tantrums and meltdowns? That’s doable! Want...
04/23/2026

Want to get rid of power struggles and standoffs? No problem! Want to lesson tantrums and meltdowns? That’s doable! Want your child to do their chores and homework without defiance or protest? This book can make that happen!! Change your relationship with your child and your parenting style and preorder “Parenting Through Play” now! (Link in bio)

I am so excited to be participating in my very first Independent Bookstore Day at the  in Temecula this Saturday, April ...
04/21/2026

I am so excited to be participating in my very first Independent Bookstore Day at the in Temecula this Saturday, April 25th! 📚

Independent Bookstore Day is a national bookish holiday celebration held the last Saturday of April to honor independent bookstores across the country, online and in person. One day. 50 states. 1600+ bookstores!

There will be author meet n greets, book signings, giveaways, pop-up vendors, and much more!! There is even a Temecula Book Crawl where you can collect stamps!

Come support this amazing store from 9AM-8PM! I will be there from 1p-2p and will have a limited number of advanced copies of my book for sale and special pre-order incentives if I sell out!!!

If you’re coming, let me know in the comments!! 👇🏻

One of my favorite moments of this year’s  was meeting  and celebrating her new book “Through Mom’s Eyes: Simple Wisdom ...
04/20/2026

One of my favorite moments of this year’s was meeting and celebrating her new book “Through Mom’s Eyes: Simple Wisdom From Mothers Who Raised Extraordinary Humans” that just came out this past week!

She is absolutely delightful and such a positive light and joyful person and I loved her keynote conversation. She talked about her journey in writing this book, the importance of being still, the benefits of taking risks, the celebration of motherhood, and even shared a beautiful excerpt from her book (swipe to listen).

And today is her birthday so please help me in wishing her a happy pub week and a happy birthday! 🎉 Congratulations on your book, I am so excited to celebrate you and cheer you on!

04/18/2026

We’re told wellness should look like yachts and mimosas…but real life? It looks like this.

Mental health care doesn’t have to be aesthetic to be effective.
It can be simple, imperfect, and still exactly what you need.

If you’re looking for real-life, evidence-based tools that actually work (not just look good online), that’s exactly why we wrote these books. 📚

Comment BOOK and we’ll DM you the links.

Mom 2.0 through the years. This week I’m atrending my 4th  and I am so excited to be here in Austin this week! My first ...
04/17/2026

Mom 2.0 through the years. This week I’m atrending my 4th and I am so excited to be here in Austin this week! My first Mom 2.0 summit was back in 2018 and every year it gets better and better.

This is my 4th time attending and 2nd year speaking. Swipe to the last slide to see the first roundtable talk I attended 8 years ago at Mom 2.0 called “How to Walk Away From Mom 2.0 With A Book Proposal” because that’s how long ago I wanted to write a book - and this year, I have a book about to come out AND I get to sell it and have my first book signing at the bookstore here on site! Talk about full circle!!

I am honored and thrilled to be here, thank you Mom 2.0! Swipe through to see the evolution!

The 4th annual Magical Media Retreat at the  sponsored by  would not have been possible without sponsors. I have been ho...
04/15/2026

The 4th annual Magical Media Retreat at the sponsored by would not have been possible without sponsors.

I have been hosting creator events since 2016 and I have worked with so many brands over the years, and these events are truly not possible without them!

My co-hosts and .justine spent over 8 months working behind the scenes to pull this event off and it truly was magical this year!

But we couldn’t have pulled it off without our title sponsor, so I owe a big thank you to for believing in us and this retreat and flying from a different state to come speak us as!

And a big thank you goes to our gifting sponsors .home and 👏🏻👏🏻 that helped us curate beautiful gift bags!

And thank you to our official retreat photographer for being such a gem of a human and for taking these incredible photos all weekend!!!

There is A LOT more to come and I’ll also be sharing on the blog soon!

04/14/2026

When correcting your child’s behavior, think of it like a sandwich! 🥪

Research has shown that providing more positive feedback to a child compared to negative feedback is more effective in trying to get a child to cooperate and positively behave. When the ratio is at minimum 2:1, the connection and communication you have with your child will thrive.

Have you ever tried this Sandwich Method approach or would you be willing to give it a try?

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