01/10/2025
The Hidden Monsters Among Us: The Devastation of Emotional Betrayal
Monsters don’t always wear grotesque masks or lurk in the shadows. Often, they walk among us, disguised as friends, lovers, or trusted confidants. The statement, “When you murder someone’s heart and soul to feed your ego and have no remorse, you are a monster,” cuts deeply, exposing a kind of cruelty that is all too common yet frequently overlooked. It speaks to the emotional violence some people inflict on others, leaving scars that may not be visible but are just as devastating as physical wounds.
The Murder of the Heart and Soul
Unlike physical violence, the destruction of someone’s emotional core is subtle but insidious. It may start with manipulation, gaslighting, or relentless criticism, slowly chipping away at the victim’s sense of self-worth. Over time, the victim begins to question their value and identity, as the perpetrator’s actions carve out a gaping wound in their psyche.
To commit such an act, knowingly or otherwise, is to murder the very essence of a person — their ability to trust, to feel joy, and to connect with others. When done in pursuit of ego — to feel superior, to control, or to gratify selfish desires — it becomes a deliberate act of emotional predation.
How do we recognise these “monsters” before they leave irreversible damage? They often exhibit traits such as:
1. Chronic manipulation – twisting facts to serve their narrative.
2. Lack of empathy – showing little concern for others’ feelings.
3. Inflated ego – feeding on praise and power, often at the expense of others.
4. Dismissiveness of boundaries – failing to respect emotional or physical limits.
