Seniorly Inc.

03/31/2026

What are some of your best, practical caregiving tips?

“Here’s my best advice to minimize nighttime accidents. Layer the sheets waterproof pad, then dry sheet, waterproof pad, then dry sheet. Try to buy washable pads. Might be more expensive at first but softer & more protection making them worth their weight in gold. I also used them in babies' cribs under sheets. Then, when it's all layered, if it’s wet during the night, just strip to next set instead of having to remake the entire bed in the middle of the night! So you can get back to sleep before you’re fully awake from a bed change.

Also, try to get your person on a ‘poop’ schedule & stick to it. Once they become ‘regular’ there aren’t as many accidents (unless caused by meds or other illness). Double up the night-time depends, too. If only the inner one gets wet, easier to rip the sides & pull off & pull dry one back up. Also, may need to actually wake the person up in the middle of the night to “go” to try to avoid wet bed. Very tiring & very hard work but a small inconvenience is easier than a huge mess.

Best of luck to all caregivers out there!”

03/28/2026

"I wish I would have spent more time with my mama when she was in the early stages of dementia. I should have enjoyed our time together more, rather than allowing fear and sadness to rob me of precious time with her. Perhaps we should have discussed with her the disease as well as any future wishes, expectations, etc.

Now my mama is totally reliant on caregivers. We are blessed to have great help between family members, private paid caregivers, and hospice. Its not like we were at the outset. There was a closeness I didn't fully appreciate."

03/26/2026

“If you're caring for an elderly parent who's started acting unpredictably, it can sometimes feel like you're walking a tightrope, blindfolded. One minute, you're the kid again, trying to make sense of their mood swings, and the next, you're the adult in charge, making the big decisions. It's a weird flip of roles that nobody prepares you for.

Dealing with their changing moods and behaviors can be tough, especially when it seems like they're not the same parents you grew up with. Seniorly is here to give you a virtual hug and some friendly advice on how to handle these tricky times.”

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Caring for aging parents can be tough, especially if attitudinal issues get in the way. Seniorly's here to walk you through the typical challenges that adult caregivers face when caring for an elderly parent.

03/24/2026

Today is American Diabetes Alert Day.

Diabetes affects both caregivers and our loved ones. It can further complicate our ability to provide care, if allowed to progress from prediabetes to Type 2.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, around 86 million people have prediabetes, that’s 1 in 3 people, and 9 out of 10 of them don't know it.

Who here struggles with diabetes or prediabetes? Have you been tested recently?

03/22/2026

"My mother has a bed sore near her tailbone, because she insists on being propped up on the couch and sitting instead of being in a hospital bed on her side at times during the day. The bed sore is getting worse because all that can be done is for her to get off of it and she won't.

I read that bed sores can lead to sepsis. Does anyone have any info or advice about bed sores?"

03/20/2026

How do you handle irrational outbursts? What works for you and your loved one?

“My husband has Parkinson’s disease. He will ‘go off’ at what appears to be nothing. When he gets in these moods if I can keep myself calm (sometimes easier than others) and act stupid by doing silly dances, making funny noises, etc. sometimes this will redirect him. I will also put on a cartoon or comedy (the sillier the better) on tv so he can just sit there and watch. I sometimes will just let him sit there watching tv without talking to him. This may not be the best, but I have found that most of the time he will calm down - and it also gives me time to decompress. This is necessary for me since I am the only caregiver.

The things I have found that set my husband off are loud noises, a lot of different noises (dogs barking, tv/radio on), action movies or tv shows, simply touching him, my attitude. And sometimes there’s no reason that makes sense at all.”

03/18/2026

A subject we’ve seen come up quite a lot lately is Urinary Tract Infections (UTI) in our loved ones. Is this something you have experience with? Share your insight with us.

People become more prone to the occurrence of UTIs as we age. This is because both men and women tend to have more problems emptying their bladder completely as we age. The urine sits in the bladder longer and bacteria may develop resulting in the infection.

This is particularly concerning for our loved ones with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. Having a UTI can increase their confusion and irritability, and we may not immediately realize why their mood has suddenly changed. The infection puts stress on the body and any kind of stress whether it is physical or emotional will often make dementia worse temporarily. Our loved one doesn’t realize why they don’t feel right, so their agitation and worry only increases.

03/15/2026

“I take my mom for 'respite care' this Thursday. She will be at the Alzheimer's unit for about 6 days! This is a huge decision for me as her primary caregiver. I have help during the day for her while I work, but the evenings have just drained me! My mom and I have lived together off and on since 1995, after my dad’s death. She is my best friend! I feel so guilty, but know it is okay!!”

Have you gone through a similar situation and felt guilt about your decision to get more help, even if it may only temporary?

03/13/2026

Today is World Sleep Day!

As caregivers we are often sleep-deprived. Lack of sleep is a problem that can affect all aspects of your life. Not only will it reduce our ability to provide the best care we can to our loved ones, but it can also be dangerous when it comes to driving and other tasks we have to complete. Not to mention the toll it takes on our mental and physical health.

We all need to work on getting better sleep. What has worked for you or are you still dreaming of a better night’s sleep?

03/10/2026

Who here has experience with In-Home Care?

Share your advice to help others.

Here’s our comprehensive guide to understanding the pros and cons of home health care, and to help make the best decision for you and your loved ones.

Explore in-home care for seniors. Seniorly can help you understand home care and whether it's the right choice for you or your loved one.

03/08/2026

Today is International Women's Day. We salute all the women caregivers and loved ones!

Let’s share an important aspect of caregiving as it relates to women. Women who are caregivers are at greater risk than men to struggle with anxiety and depression. It is important to talk openly about mental health, so let’s talk about how it affects us as caregivers.

Can you relate to this deeply personal story we heard from our community?

"I didn't want to admit I was depressed and fighting anxiety. I just thought this was what life was like as a caregiver. I needed to be tough and push through it! My doctor wanted me to try an anti-depressant. I refused several times until both my daughter and my best friend urged me to reconsider. Time to stop being stubborn, so I went back to my doctor for that prescription.

It took a couple of weeks to take effect, but it really worked. Initially, I didn't think I felt any different, but then it slowly dawned on me, I rarely cried anymore. I used to have almost daily breakdowns, crying randomly in the car or shower. My next realization was that I could sit for a couple of hours after my husband went to bed and read a book. I love reading but hadn't been able to concentrate with all the stress of being a caregiver. Over time, I just found my balance again.

I've been taking it daily for the next three and a half years now. I urge anyone struggling with the emotions of caregiving to discuss it with a doctor. I was hesitant to get on a daily drug, but I'm so glad I did. Caregiving is such an all-consuming thing and we deserve to have a little help, any way we can get it. There’s no shame in getting help."

03/06/2026

This weekend is Daylight Savings Time when most of us will spring ahead one hour.

For those of us caring for the elderly, especially those with dementia, a slight change in schedule can be a big disruption to the flow of our days. Sleep patterns that we’ve worked hard to maintain can get out of hand again. Our loved ones who struggle with sundowning can also be affected as they adjust to the new schedule. Then, of course, our own sleep may be affected, which makes our days harder.

How does the time change impact the day-to-day caregiving routine?

Share any tips for making the transition easier!