Brenda’s House of Hope

11/01/2025

Last night, we got to hear all three of Jamie’s daughters speak about what it was like living through her addiction. They described it as being in the driver’s seat of a car that was completely out of control and she was in the passenger seat, no matter how hard they tried, they couldn’t stop the chaos. But then one day, their mom said enough is enough… and she surrendered.

As someone whose loved one never got that chance to take back control, hearing their story hit deep. To see this kind of healing and redemption, to see a family that’s been through so much pain now standing together in love and recovery, it’s something I’ll always cherish.

It’s a reminder that hope is real, and that it’s never too late for change. Be brave enough to ask for help! Your circumstances will change for the better and your children will have a chance to recover too. 💜

11/01/2025

Earl's Grille with my favorite ladies!! 💜🫶🏻💜

10/28/2025

Jamie Snodgrass is two years sober today!!! 💜🙌👏

She called me on a Saturday when I was out of town, asking if she could come. I hesitated, this was her hometown, and I knew how many challenges that could bring. But today, I’m so glad I said yes. God sure knew we needed her as much as she needed us!🥰

She’s proven herself over and over, to me, to her family, and to everyone who knows her. She’s stayed true to herself and this program, and now her family gets to have the best version of her. So proud of you, Jamie (My Angel) and we love you so very much! 🫶🏻

10/27/2025

Any waitressing jobs available?

10/27/2025

Being surrounded by strong, resilient women in recovery has changed the way I see people and life itself. Many of these women have faced battles that most can't imagine: addiction, homelessness, food insecurity, and the pain of being judged or dismissed because of where they are in life. Yet in the midst of hardship, they carry a grace and strength that the world often overlooks.

In a time when compassion seems to be fading, and people are quick to mock or shame others for their circumstances, these women remind me of what true humanity looks like. They don't turn away from pain, they meet it with understanding. They don't judge, they listen, lift, and love. Their example has taught me that empathy is not weakness; it's the foundation of real change.

There's a verse that often echoes in my heart when I think of their journeys:

“You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.” – John 13:7

This verse reminds us that even in confusion and suffering, God is working. The world might mock or misunderstand those who struggle, but He sees the deeper story..one of growth, redemption, and purpose.

During difficult times, this truth gives us the strength to keep going. It reminds us that compassion heals, that judgment only divides, and that every person, no matter their circumstances..carries a story worth honoring. 💜

10/25/2025

To the one who’s wearing long sleeves in the summer. To the one who spends way too many hours in the bathroom. To the one that won’t ever put their purse down because there is paraphernalia in there. To the one who is looking at the mess they are in and thinking there is no coming back from this. To the one who thinks they are too broken. To the one who is plotting how to get money. To the one who has a bag of clothes and no place to stay. To the one who thinks it isn’t too bad. To the one who is getting high on their lunch break. To the one who who’s family won’t talk to you. To the one that’s caught charges and is dreading their day in court. To the one who is withdrawing. To the one who is about to meet their drug dealer. To the one who hasn’t seen their kids for a month. To the one who’s only gifts they have to give for Christmas are stolen. To the one that has a CPS case. To the one that thinks they would be better off dead...

I speak up for YOU.

Because I see YOU.
You can be clean.
You can be happy.
You can be successful.
You can be free.
You can be healthy.
You can love yourself.
Others can love you.
You matter.
Your life matters.
You are beautifully and wonderfully made.
You are not alone.

Please message me if you need someone to talk to or to help you.

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10/24/2025

Help us wish our newest resident, Jamie, a very happy birthday! 🎉 🎂 💕 She’s already made such a positive impact and brings so much joy to everyone around her.
We love spending each day with her and can’t wait to celebrate her today! 🥰

10/24/2025

10/23/2025

Aimee Sue was invited by Nikki to visit the Jackson Aspell campus and share her story with their residents.

It was especially meaningful because Aimee and Nikki knew each other before getting sober and to see them now, united in recovery and helping others, was truly amazing.

Several past counselors recognized Aimee and even remembered how she used to spell her name differently! Then, to our surprise, we ran into their former director, Richard Barber, the same person who patiently answered all my questions when I was first getting started with our program. I'll never forget the wisdom and encouragement he poured into me.

We also had the chance to reconnect with Lindsey Crowder, who is now the director. She's doing an incredible job and graciously gave us a tour of the campus.

It's so encouraging to witness these full-circle moments and to collaborate with others who share the same heart for helping people find freedom and hope. 💜🫶🏻💜