02/14/2026
I can help facilitate this type of death experience from a “good death” plan to body care and transport to after death affairs. Funeral homes are only an option not a requirement.
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When her cancer came back, she was really clear about what she wanted this time. No hospital room. No machines. No rotating strangers. She wanted to be at home. In her own bed. Window open. Wind in the trees. Her people nearby.
As things changed, her family stayed close. Someone was always sitting with her taking turns reading, brushing her hair, holding her hand when talking felt like too much. When she died, it wasn’t dramatic. It was quiet. One breath… then stillness. The whole room just felt calm.
Later, her daughter warmed water and brought washcloths. The family washed her together. Slow. Careful. Tender. They dressed her in her favorite blue silk pajamas. Exactly how she wanted it. No chemicals. No rush. No strangers taking over.
People came by all day. Food in their hands. Stories. Tears. Some laughter, too. They sat with her, touched her hand, said what they needed to say.
When it was time, they laid out her shroud handmade by Sanctum Shrouds and gathered around her again. Everyone placed a rose. One by one. The whole room smelled like a garden.
The next morning, they carried her out to the family van. No hearse. No casket showroom moment. Just sunlight, trees, bees buzzing somewhere nearby.
At the green burial cemetery, she was laid into the forest wrapped in her shroud, roses still around her. Moss. Soil. Roots. Back to the place she loved.
Her husband said something I’ll never forget while we placed the last rose on the grave: “No fuss. Just the forest telling her story.”
