11/02/2025
I debated whether or not to share this - then figured why the hell not? There’s no shame in sharing this experience, because I can’t be the only one out there ☺️
But when you have a neurospicy brain - some holidays just hit different! 🎃🦃🎄
Meaning, sights, smells, noises, textures, socializing…depending on the day and where my nervous system is at, I know I’ll react differently. As will the rest of my household!
Then you throw a child into the mix, who also happens to have a neurospicy brain as well (thanks genetics!) and it amplifies it all!
So how do we work with our brain and body rather than against them? We reduce expectations! We don’t spend a ton of time out socializing, in this case trick or treating, especially if the brain and body aren’t there to do it. If part of a costume comes off, that’s ok, we simply move on. We have many hands on deck (thank you grandparents!!) to help with support. Oh, and we constantly direct body cues (potty time, hunger, nap/decompressing).
Sure - our household isn’t typical. But that’s ok, because we set it up to be neuro-affirming and soothing to various neurotypes and nervous systems.
So if you’re holidays or family traditions look a bit different to those around you - just know you’re not alone 💙 You’re doing what’s best for your family and best of all: you’re working WITH your brain and body ✨
Cue current hyper-fixation costumes 🏴☠️