27/12/2012
Update:
Greetings, people. As Juliette would say, "Merry Kiss-mas!"
Let's see, I'll start where I last left off. Not much has really changed since I last journaled. Juliette continues to go to St. Luke's twice a week for therapy. Mondays to work on her keloid scarring until we get her brace, and Fridays for pool therapy, which she LOVES! I'm guessing it could increase to 3 times a week once she gets a device, so we can work with her therapist on walking in it. Mobility-wise, she is about the same. I have noticed in past weeks, however, that she's walking on the right foot directly on the amputated heel, with her toes pointed towards the ceiling. Very bizarre, I thought to myself. I brought it up to her PT last week, and he said he had noticed as well. All he really had to say about it is that she must have discovered that it's comfortable to do so, so continues to walk that way.
We're also STILL waiting on our brace from Thompson's, unfortunately. I'm actually quite peeved as we went over a month without a word from them. We were promised that a device would be ready by the first of December! I even phoned a couple of times inquiring on the status since she was molded, only to be met with a "We'll call you when it's ready," blah, blah, blah. Well, the call never came, so I called yet again about a week and a half ago. The receptionist couldn't tell me what the delay was all about, and promised I'd get a call back from someone. I'd heard that before, to no avail. This time, though, the prosthetist actually did return my call, leaving me a message to tell me that the holdup has to do with the fact that they've been waiting on the gel that they'll be using to make her brace. Ok, if that's the case, why not pick up the phone to tell me sooner? It would have taken moments. Ugh. In the meantime, we've been continuing to go like we've been going, forced to go out without any shoes on in this weather, in her lymphedema wrap. Her Aunt Jen did get her a cheap pair of boots last week that she can kind of walk in, but like the last ones I got her (and ended up returning), the one on the right foot tends to twist around her foot as she walks as there's no heel there to anchor it. :( So we mostly avoid the boots... We're going to continue to anxiously await a referral from her prosthetist for somewhere to get some shoes.
Today, I received a call from Byram, who made Juliette two pairs of custom sewn scar/burn garments, which will doubly serve to reduce her terrible scarring as well as help with edema. You can see kinda in the picture that one has a smaller heel area. The downside to these garments is the fact that they won't provide cushioning to that right foot, as the lymphedema wrap does. The best combo would be this new scar garment with the brace. Without those wraps she limps much more, as I've said many times. So I'm not sure what I am going to do. I want the terrible scarring to be minimized, but I don't want her to be uncomfortable, either. I suppose I'll just alternate between the two until I get the brace, at which point I'll use the scar garment all the time. Her plastic surgeon actually recommended a different product, something called CICA-CARE, which is a silicon gel sheeting that you apply over the scar. However, it is REALLY expensive and not covered by insurance. An alternate product is the more common Mederma. Because Juliette's PT is more of a fan of the scar garment as opposed to the gel sheeting, I went with that. They are also used on patients who have sustained serious burns, to help minimize swelling.
I received a call a week or two ago from Juliette's plastic surgeon's office, stating that they had made a referral to a couple of Orthopedic surgeons in Seattle, but that I'm to wait for them to call me. No call yet. I'm not too eager anyway to drive over the pass in the snow so it can wait until spring.
Since I last journaled, Juliette's just been getting pumped up for Christmas, and getting girlier by the moment! Crazy, considering who her mom is ;-) This is the first year she 'gets' who Santa is, and she's just been yammiring about him and Frosty and Rudolph day in and day out. And every time she sees any Christmas lights at all, she acts like it's the most exciting thing ever and announces it to everyone! "Kissmas lights! Yaaaayyyy!" It's pretty cute. And it's pretty cool to see the magic in life again through my daughter. I took her and her doggie Winnie to see Santa at the Owl Pharmacy in ML (3$, baby, for a framed pic!), but she was utterly terrified and REFUSED to sit in his lap. Of course, she talked nonstop about him beforehand, only to get a dose of stage fright when the big moment presented itself! Ha! I also have walked her by the Santa at Riverpark Square once or twice, just so she can get more and more comfortable with Santa. She refused to sit on his lap, too, but the other night, from across the rope divider thing, whispered oh-so sweetly to him that she'd like a dolly. Awww!
As for the girly thing, it's tutu this and tutu that. This girl will not leave the house anymore without a tutu or a foofoo dress on! At present, she's most obsessed with those Princess dress-up outfits! Thankfully she got a couple for Christmas, along with a crown! And of course there has to be multiple outfit changes hourly . Lol. Luckily she has her Auntie Jen to help out in this area, as I'm pretty useless with hair and clothes. Her fairy godfather Trav certainly would be proud ;-) For Christmas, her Aunt Jen and Mike got her this vanity set, complete with a fake makeup set and jewelry and all these fake hair styling accessories, including a blow dryer that actually makes a blow-dryer sound. She loves to sit in front of the mirror, brush her hair, and say "I'm so pretty."
I'm pretty tuckered out from the past few days. My kid is one hot ticket in this town, I'll tell you. Everyone wants a piece of her. She is pretty amazing, I'll admit. She has seen her dad the past 3 days, including for Christmas during the day. On Christmas Eve, she and I went to dinner at the Olive Garden with Mike, Jen, my parents, and Jen's brother and his son. Juliette was pretty good considering how long we ended up being there, and made friends with everyone sitting around us! When dinner was over, she even went around to all of the tables near ours, telling the diners sitting at them "Merry Kiss-mas" as they "Oohed" and "Awwed" at her.