12/05/2025
My job isn’t to force children open.
It’s to create enough safety, patience, and encouragement that they decide to unfold on their own. 🌿
The shame plant closes its leaves the moment it’s touched.
Not out of weakness, but to protect itself.
Tutoring can feel the same.
Sometimes a student’s frustration, fear, or “I can’t do this” moment touches a sensitive spot, and they shut down for a bit.
They’re not giving up, they’re guarding themselves.
It is hard to explain why there is so much counseling and rapport building during a dyslexia session; the shame plant helps us all understand how a child feels inside. 💚