02/25/2026
ARTICLE: “Reels, TikToks, and the Things We’re Not Saying Out Loud” by Jennifer Van Luven, MSW, LCSW, CM
In today’s digital age, many of us communicate through memes, TikToks, and Reels as much as we do through words. When we send a funny, sarcastic, or pointed video to our partner about something “that’s wrong with them,” it often feels lighthearted or harmless, but our underlying intention is usually more complex.
Most of the time, we are not trying to attack or shame our partner. Instead, these messages tend to be our way of communicating a deeper need. Click the link below to read more about how and why we use these tactics to speak our feelings….feel free to share!
By Jennifer Van Luven, MSW, LCSW, CM