Reset With Renee

03/24/2026

When you are asked for time, energy, support, presence, or connection, what happens to you?

I bet it “depends” on your capacity…

Like many & I have had a lifelong struggle with meeting my desires, honoring my capacity, & creating or maintaining connections with others.

My most high valued relationships tend to be with “chosen ones” – people I immediately felt connection with & who demonstrated safety & trust from “go.”

Historically, my clients & my partner get the best of my energy & time; others get a metered-out amount. I wish it were different & maybe it will be one day?

Ironically, this post is in response to a DM from a follower, wondering where I have been😉

In truth, I have been slowing down the pace of “output” across all the platforms I regularly or “sometimes” use. Not because I don’t WANT to connect, but because I know I need to restructure my time and/or get help to be able to “do all the things.”

Lately, I have been leaning into:
• Less “have to,” “ought to,” “should,” & “what if’s”
• Less forcing, pushing, efforting
• More allowing, pivoting, slowing down

I still carry the messages of our society ( ) AND I am noticing what feels good, gives energy rather than depletes, & trusting that WHO is for me & with me will be here when I have more or resources.

-->Can you relate to the struggle of not knowing when you will have a high-capacity day or low-capacity day?
-->Do you worry about the impact of your capacity on your connections & relationships?
-->Do requests or demands sometimes or often register as a threat to your nervous system?

These are the types of things I discuss regularly in my 1:1 sessions as well as in the 90 Day Relationship Reset Program. In fact, next week we will discuss energy givers/takers!

Want to deep dive & discuss?

Let’s explore together. Email me to get started!

03/05/2026

Relational ambivalence can last a long time, at least until there is a crisis big enough to upset the status quo.

My advice if you find yourself in this situation:

1) Create safety internally first. Stop self-sacrificing & self-abandoning.

2) Raise the standard.
You can’t go back to what was; that didn’t work.

You need to RESET your relationship agreements & that will mean dealing with discomfort & differences.

3) Get support for the journey.

This change will invite you to work internally & externally at the same time.

Meanwhile you will need to adult across your roles & responsibilities. It can be a lot.

A plan & context for change can significantly reduce overwhelm & shorten the learning curve.

If now is the time for you to Reset Your Relationship, reach out to join the 90 Day group coaching program.

Email Renee NOW to get started: renee@resetwithrenee.com

02/07/2026

The most loving people I know are kind, NOT nice;)

HEALING PARADOX

Finding answers to what you don’t know is a START.

But what do you do when FEAR kicks in - when KNOWING what to DO asks you to upset the status quo?

EXAMPLE

My client got unstuck when they stopped worrying about finding the right words to use to LESSEN pushback & instead found the words that named their TRUTH simply without explanation.

RESOURCE & SOLUTION

The 90 Day Relationship Reset program helps you tap into courage & provides the “goldilocks” of support you need to keep moving forward.

SAVE YOUR SPOT: Sign up for the 90 Day Relationship Reset Coaching Program now to enjoy the Early Bird Discount AND access the first 2 pre-launch events. Act now - this offer is for a small group of 10!

LEARNING LEGACY PURE GOLD - A QUOTE

"When words are both true and kind, they can change the world" -Buddha

02/05/2026

02/04/2026

You know WHAT is NOT working.
But you do NOT KNOW what to do or how.

I got you;)!

My life journey - the lessons & wisdom are the basis of these 9 Steps! 😅

I unofficially mentor my 1:1 clients through these steps!

My MOST SUCCESSFUL CLIENTS RESET their world, inside & out, when they have:
- helpful information
- space to deconstruct OLD learning that no longer works
- a timeline for accountability
- structure as guardrails
- partner in pacing & perspective
- a bridge to support for when life gets really real;)

Each client who has DONE THE WORK expresses gratitude for the transformation & results they reap after investing the time, energy, & money in THEM!

I want you to have this too!

That's what we are doing in the upcoming program: The 90 Day Relationship Reset!

*weekly group coaching with Renee
*private community space
*application, integration, embodiment ☑

One hour with Renee = $250.
90 days of the program = $1,500 - serious bang for your buck🎁

Early Bird Discount available until end of day 2/12/24 🤩

Join RENEE February 12th to learn the 9 Steps of the Relationship Reset. Register today to be a part of the pre-event conversation 😉

Link in bio!
Or: https://resetwithrenee.com/relationship-reset

02/04/2026

When you no longer need to EXPLAIN or CONVINCE OTHERS to validate your limits you are hitting a MAJOR healing MILESTONE!

Boundaries are for Beginners:

PEOPLE PLEASERS in early recovery know what they want to STOP experiencing in relationships.

People Pleasers struggle to find the words to convey their limits:
WHAT they want to experience (or no longer experience).

Their energy is more TRY & than DO --> getting hung up on getting “buy in”.

A client used to WASTE ENERGY describing what needed to be in place for them to re-engage their family of origin.

The CHANGE they made was getting clear for themselves WHEN they were able to stay present & loving & WHAT the client would do when that was no longer true.

“I love you guys but it hurts my heart to stay here & watch you hurt Mom (or Dad) like that.”

This is exactly what we do inside my offer:

The 90 Day Relationship Reset.

We STOP making you or others the bad guy & stop calling out bad behavior.

We help you decide WHAT you are available for & WHEN.

Sign up for the workshop where I’ll show you how to reclaim your personal power & set yourself free, step by step.

Stop “trying” & start DOING;)!
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02/03/2026

TALK THERAPY ALONE is GOOD.

TALK THERAPY + NEW LEARNING is BETTER.

TALK THERAPY + NEW LEARNING + COMMUNITY =

GAMECHANGER

Join me in my free community space on Mighty Networks NOW;)!

It's a space where we can learn & unlearn together!

Join me in moving through this short series that I just started!

It's on a topic that 100% of my clients get an AHA from learning about & then applying to their life!

What energy or frequency is your unique magic? Join us to find out!

Or come to see which one I am showing you here in this photo🤣

02/02/2026

WHAT you’re feeling isn’t wrong.

WHERE you’re focusing might be.

The NEED for SAFETY in relationship is GROWING!!!!

Are you meeting the need?

Is your need met?

Learn the Blueprint for Relational Safety inside the 90 Day Relationship Reset Program.

Unlearn outdated information.
Fill in information gaps.

There is no shame - it's not your fault you didn't receive the
"How to Human" Instructional Manual;)

You can CHOOSE to learn now!

Leave powerlessness & doubt behind.

Lessen Regret!

Lead yourself & your loved ones through these trying times.

Learn More: https://resetwithrenee.com/relationship-reset

Enroll Here: https://tr.ee/fGwwKG

We kick off the program on February 24th!

Take your first step by joining us for a free Master Class on February 12th:

9 Steps to Your Relationship Reset.

See HOW the 9 Steps of the Relationship Reset help you:
• Ditch Doubt for Clarity
• Choose Courageously Despite Discomfort
• Commit to Growth versus Staying Stuck

Register to receive the Zoom Meeting Link:
https://tr.ee/P333d1

01/30/2026

My Clients Superpowers
Amazing As They Are
Can Become Their Kryptonite!

-- Seekers, Deep Feelers, Thinkers
-- Hold A High Standard
-- See Potential & Patterns
-- Give Benefit of the Doubt

THEIR RESET:
Knowing HOW & WHEN
to use their superpowers
AS WELL AS WHEN NOT TO.

Know Your Kryptonite!

Take your first step by joining us for a free Master Class on February 12th: 9 Steps to Your Relationship Reset.

See HOW the 9 Steps of the Relationship Reset help you:

• Ditch Doubt for Clarity
• Choose Courageously Despite Discomfort
• Commit to Growth versus Staying Stuck

Register to receive the Zoom Meeting Link:

https://tr.ee/P333d1

Or secure your spot in the 90 Day Group Coaching Offer (space is limited to 10) & enjoy Early Bird Benefits;)!

Learn More:
https://resetwithrenee.com/relationship-reset

Enroll Here:
https://tr.ee/fGwwKG

We kick off the program on February 24th!
Be the HERO in YOUR STORY!

01/29/2026

“Do the best you can until you know better.Then when you know better, do better”
– Maya Angelou

We DEEP DIVE this in my NEW group coaching offer: The 90 Day Relationship Reset Program.

* Plug holes in your learning. Release outdated perspectives. REGROUP!

* Drop into the energy of who you are becoming & make new choices. REALIGN!

* Learn from the process to REFINE & RESET.

Learn More:

https://resetwithrenee.com/relationship-reset

Enroll Here:

https://tr.ee/fGwwKG
We kick off the program on February 24th!

And...

Take your first step by joining us for a free Master Class on February 12th.

Attend to see HOW the 9 Steps of the Relationship Reset help you:

• Ditch Doubt for Clarity
• Choose Courageously Despite Discomfort
• Commit to Growth versus Staying Stuck

Register to receive the Zoom Meeting Link:

https://tr.ee/P333d1

Let my Learning Lessons Shorten Your Learning Curve;)!

01/23/2026

Take your first step by joining us for a free Master Class on February 12th:

9 Steps to Your Relationship Reset.

See HOW the 9 Steps of the Relationship Reset help you:

• Ditch Doubt for Clarity
• Choose Courageously Despite Discomfort
• Commit to Growth versus Staying Stuck

Register to receive the Zoom Meeting Link:

https://tr.ee/P333d1

INVEST IN YOU & WHAT MATTERS

We DEEP DIVE this in my NEW group coaching offer:

The 90 Day Relationship Reset Program.

“Do the best you can until you know better.
Then when you know better, do better”
– Maya Angelou

• Plug holes in your learning. Release outdated perspectives. Regroup.

• Drop into the energy of who you are becoming & make new choices. Realign.

• Learn from the process to Refine & RESET.

Learn More:

https://resetwithrenee.com/relationship-reset

Enroll Here: https://tr.ee/fGwwKG

We kick off the program on February 24th!