03/05/2026
Relational ambivalence can last a long time, at least until there is a crisis big enough to upset the status quo.
My advice if you find yourself in this situation:
1) Create safety internally first. Stop self-sacrificing & self-abandoning.
2) Raise the standard.
You can’t go back to what was; that didn’t work.
You need to RESET your relationship agreements & that will mean dealing with discomfort & differences.
3) Get support for the journey.
This change will invite you to work internally & externally at the same time.
Meanwhile you will need to adult across your roles & responsibilities. It can be a lot.
A plan & context for change can significantly reduce overwhelm & shorten the learning curve.
If now is the time for you to Reset Your Relationship, reach out to join the 90 Day group coaching program.
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