12/21/2024
Went to a 3h heart to heart brunch with a long time friend of mine today
She gifted me this heart (there are stories behind that heart gift) 💝
A long time ago, we had a falling out. I always felt so bad about the event, as she and I were good friends and I felt as though it was my fault we fell out
But the truth is, we saw it in two lights. I saw it as a very unfortunate end, and she saw as a bump in the road
Years later, we reconnected and we talked it out. I learned how her interpretation was much different than mine. She allowed my guilt to dissipate and be replaced by an even stronger foundation than we had before. Because we talked about it
Not everyone will see things the same way. Your version of an event may be radically different from each other. But the difference for us was the open communication because we stayed on the same level. No one was shamed. We both listened to understand each other and were both apologetic. Of course, this is how I see it … again
I am so grateful to have her in my life. And we will always be friends. We don’t see life exactly the same, but we are going through the same thing often at the same time. So we both vent AND listen equally, to understand. It’s a two way friendship
That reconnection happened years ago. So spending 3h with her today is always a great in depth re-reconnection each time
I appreciate you, Krista
And the brunch was amazing! Highly recommend the avocado toast with honey 🥑 🍞 🍯