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Owen's Corner, Harlingen, TX (2026)

04/05/2026

Owen Update

Owen is rolling into Day 11 at Children’s Hospital.
These last few days have been hard on him. He’s been releasing a lot of pressure, frustration, and sadness over wanting to go home but not being able to because of his immunity. That is such a hard situation for a child to process.

He’s been having these emotional episodes almost daily.
I feel like Thursday was the hardest. We were also preparing for the memorial that day. A dear friend came by and dropped off memorial emblems so we could have our own little table set up, and she brought her sweet little boy. Owen and Oliver were able to play for a bit, which was such a bright spot.

But as soon as they left, Owen really went into a funk.
I felt a heavy presence trying to wear us down so we wouldn’t log into Zoom for our meeting that evening. But Jehovah gave me the strength to give Owen space first, and then to lovingly set firm boundaries.
In that moment, I truly felt like Jehovah gave me the words. I was simply the vessel.

Later during shift change, the night nurse came in and told me, “I heard about how amazing you were with Owen.” That meant a lot, especially knowing we were able to work through the moment before psych needed to step in.

Owen has still had some sad days since then, but thankfully not to the level of Thursday morning.
We are doing our best to stay busy.

Even though Owen gets bored in the room, there are still many things he can do, and we are trying our very best to focus on what we can control right now:

getting enough rest
staying hydrated
focusing on spiritual things
keeping his mind occupied

Most importantly, we continue to pray for Owen’s ANC to start trending upward so we can finally go home.
Right now, Owen is not receiving chemo. This is his body’s chance to recover before heading into the Maintenance phase.

He also had some dear friends come visit, and that really helped lift his spirits and made the day go by faster.
The weekends are usually the quietest for Owen and for us since many hospital staff are off, but this weekend has been better, and we are praying that continues.

Our prayer is that next week brings discharge and some much-needed time at home.

Thank you to everyone who has continued to pray, think of us, and donate. We truly appreciate every single effort and feel so supported.

Please keep praying for Owen’s counts to rise so he can get home soon.

03/16/2026

It has been a while since I’ve posted an update. Since Owen was discharged, we’ve been back at home trying to settle into a bit of normal life again. Last week we were supposed to start his chemo, as I had mentioned before. Owen had been accessed and was receiving a monthly antibiotic to help keep certain bacteria away, but when the labs came back his platelets were low, so we had to head back home and wait.

Now, a week later, we are back at Children’s for his outpatient 5-day chemo treatment.

The weekend before coming back, Owen had a few moments where he was really sad and crying over his dogs — the one that had to be given away and Yari, the one that was run over. He’s had episodes like this before, and usually I’m pretty good at helping him through them. But lately they’ve been happening more often, and I got to a point where something needed to change — something that could give Owen a little emotional rest, and honestly give my nervous system a rest too.

Eman and I talked and decided to get Owen a puppy that looked similar to Yari. I thought about it for a while before bringing it up to Eman because I knew it sounded a little crazy. We definitely didn’t need another dog, but at the same time we both wanted Owen to have something comforting — something he could focus his energy and love on, and something he could look forward to going home to after his chemo treatments.

We started looking on Facebook Marketplace. There were a lot of pups needing homes, and many had rehoming fees, which I completely understand. Eventually I came across a gentleman in Teague who said two puppies had been dumped at his workplace and he was trying to rehome them for free.

I showed Owen the pictures and he picked the little brown and white one. We were told it was a girl. The next day I contacted the man and arranged to pick “her” up on Monday so I could take the puppy to the vet and get cleaned up before bringing it home.

Well… once we got to the vet, the doctor informed me that our “girl” was actually a boy! I had honestly never even checked because the poor pup was in such rough condition when I picked him up. After about three hours at the vet and another two hours at the Tractor Supply self-wash station, this little guy was finally cleaned up and ready.

When I got home, I snuck the puppy through my dad’s window and then told Owen and Oliver I had a surprise. I said the surprise was mainly for Owen, but Oliver would have to help take care of it too. I had them close their eyes while I walked down the hallway and gently placed the “puppy package” in Owen’s lap.

When Owen opened his eyes, he gasped and covered his mouth and said, “Nooooo!” — and then he started crying happy tears. He was completely over the moon and in disbelief that he was actually getting a puppy. He decided to name him **Carlo**.

Owen’s mood has already been so much better. He got to spend about two and a half days with Carlo before we had to come back down for chemo, so we left the little nugget with Eman and my dad. It’s been three nights and four days away from home now, and Owen is really missing his puppy and being home. He’s very excited that tomorrow we should finally get to head back and see Carlo again.

Owen just finished Day 4 of his Nelarabine infusion tonight, and tomorrow morning will be the last one for this round. He’ll get a couple of days off, and then we have to travel back down again on Thursday for a procedure and more chemo.

We’re hoping for another smooth day tomorrow.

I’ve been pretty fatigued lately, so I haven’t been able to do daily or every-other-day updates and reach outs like I normally try to. But we’re still here, taking things one day at a time, and we’re grateful for all the prayers, love, and support that continue to surround Owen and our family.

Meet CARLO. The teeny weeny pit mix

09/18/2025

Our sweet Owen has been fighting such an excruciating battle, and these last few days have been especially hard—trying to make him comfortable while not being able to truly comfort him has been heartbreaking.
Emanuele was able to come up Sunday night to help carry the load with Owen in the hospital, which has been a blessing. Owen still requires support from a BiPAP breathing machine to get enough oxygen through his lungs.
Yesterday, the doctors had planned to take Owen into the OR to examine his nasal fungal infection, as they feared it was worsening due to his high fevers of 103–104. However, they had to postpone because his sodium levels were too high for anesthesia, and they wanted to keep him safe. Today, even with the risks, they decided surgery was necessary in order to get ahead of this fungal infection, because if it spreads, it could threaten Owen’s life. They also needed to check his ear.
The doctors have been very straightforward with us—no sugarcoating—because their goal is to give Owen the very best chance at survival. They explained that because Owen is so sick and relies on breathing support, he would remain intubated after surgery until the inflammation in his body goes down and his lungs have time to heal.
We are grateful to share that the surgeon called us after the procedure and said everything went really well. In Owen’s nasal area, they didn’t notice much infection, which was a huge relief, though they did take biopsies just to be safe. His ear, however, was another story—they found a cyst filled with pus, which they were able to drain. They believe this may have been causing his fevers and discomfort. They also took a biopsy and sent samples for testing. Infections like this are common in children who are immune compromised, especially in the ear and surrounding bone.
Through it all, Emanuele and I continue to pray that Jehovah sustains us on this journey with Owen. This infection needs to be cleared so he can continue with his chemo treatments. Please keep our family, and especially our sweet Owen, in your prayers. This is a very heavy time for us, and we are truly feeling the weight of his treatment.

09/06/2025

Owen had his procedure this morning for a nasal endoscopy. The surgeons were thorough in removing any nasal tissue that looked suspicious for fungal infection and sent samples out for testing so they can determine exactly what kind of fungus we are dealing with. They also took a biopsy from his ear canal since it looked concerning.

He is now back in his room, resting and very sleepy from the anesthesia. We won’t know the full extent or seriousness of the fungal infection yet—only that he does have one. The doctors, oncologists, and surgeons are acting quickly because they understand how serious fungal infections can be in children with weakened immune systems. Owen will likely need more procedures like this while we remain in the hospital, so the team can keep checking and making sure he is growing back healthy nasal tissue lining.

The infectious disease team explained that this type of fungus is something that exists in our everyday environment. A healthy person’s immune system, with strong white blood cells, can keep it in check without any issue. But for Owen, with no immune defenses, it can take hold even when we’ve done everything right.

We are grateful to be in the right place, surrounded by doctors who know exactly how to handle this, and we continue to thank Jehovah God for guiding us here at the right time.

09/04/2025

We’re waiting with Owen as he prepares for a procedure on his nasal passage. He’s had two scopes done while awake, which were very uncomfortable, so the ENT doctors have decided to put him under anesthesia this time to get a clearer look. They need to rule out any fungal or mold growth in his nasal tissue, as this could be life-threatening with his immunity level currently at zero. The surgeon will also check his ear canal, which is completely shut from inflammation, to make sure nothing harmful is hiding there. Afterward, Owen will undergo a spinal tap and receive chemo infusion therapy into his spine. It’s another stressful day for Owen and for us, especially since he hasn’t been able to drink anything since last night. We deeply appreciate your prayers and shares.

08/29/2025

Update on Owen

We are currently on the Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders floor, which is Owen’s usual floor for outpatient treatments. We are so thankful to the ER team for quickly identifying that Owen was in septic shock and getting us up to the ICU, where the doctors were able to stabilize his blood pressure and bring his heart rate back to normal. Owen spent 48 hours in the ICU before being moved here, and they were even able to remove two IV lines from his arm—another step forward.

Owen has contracted a bacteria called Pseudomonas. While it’s common in the environment, it can cause serious infections in people with weakened immune systems. Since Owen’s white blood cell count is very low right now, his body is more vulnerable. The doctors explained the plan—he’ll need 10–14 days of antibiotics, but he may be able to go home sooner if he can switch from IV to oral medication. For that to happen, his blood counts need to recover, and he must remain fever-free. Which he is close to reaching that time marker.

Owen is still experiencing a lot of nausea and significant ear pain. A CT scan showed a pocket of fluid in his parotid gland, which is inflamed, and this explains the intense ear pain he has been feeling. The doctors are closely monitoring it, and we’re hopeful it will improve with treatment. While Owen is here, he will also continue his chemotherapy treatments, and next Thursday he is scheduled for his lumbar procedure.

Oliver and I are staying with Owen throughout his hospital stay, and Eman is with us whenever work allows. It’s hard being here, and Owen is eager to be home, but we are grateful to Jehovah for guiding us to the ER when we needed to, and for the care Owen is receiving now.

Each day that passes brings us one step closer to the end of this treatment.

We are deeply thankful for our community—the love, prayers, and support mean so much to us. With Jehovah’s help, we will get through this hurdle and be back home soon.

07/11/2025

What Nobody Talks About

Nobody talks about what it’s really like when your child is going through chemo.

Nobody talks about how it affects them — the meds, the anesthesia, the way their bodies and minds react. Nobody talks about the bad days in clinic.

Nobody talks about trying to get your child dressed for an appointment while they refuse to move, to speak, to cooperate — because they’re exhausted from a battle they didn’t choose.

Nobody talks about having to physically dress your child. Or carry them when they scream "no" and cry, and hit you — not out of hate, but because they’ve lost all control since the day they were diagnosed.

He’s not a “warrior.” Warriors get to choose how they train for battle.

Owen doesn’t get to choose. He doesn’t choose when to have chemo. He doesn’t get breaks when it’s too much. The doctors are focused on saving his life, but he’s the one enduring the cost.

Nobody talks about what happens when he wakes up from anesthesia angry, frustrated, and refusing to cooperate — even with the nurses, let alone me.

Nobody talks about the specific chemo drugs that come with dangerous side effects, like a sudden drop in blood pressure — the ones where he has to be monitored closely.

Nobody talks about fighting your child just to keep a finger monitor on — while he screams, “I DON’T CARE, I DON’T WANT IT ON MY FINGER,” and hits your arm in frustration.

Nobody talks about the mental toll this takes on us — the caregivers, the parents, the ones holding it together so their child can fall apart.

Not every day is a “good day.” No two days are the same. Some days, Owen simply isn't having it. And that's okay.

I need you to know this isn’t the whole picture you see on social media. Yes, we share his good days — because those are the moments we cling to. But behind those smiles are real struggles.

He is responding well to treatment. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t breaking him down in other ways.

This is real life. It’s hard, it’s exhausting, and it hurts in places you don’t talk about. But we’re still here. Holding on.

And that matters, too.

07/04/2025

Update on Owen:

It’s been a while since I’ve posted. We were finally able to go home on the 26th — the first time in a month and a half. Instead of only receiving chemo on Thursdays at the clinic, Owen now takes a daily chemo medication at night and receives injections from Friday through Sunday each week. I give him anti-nausea medicine before his chemo, and it’s been working well to give it at night so he can sleep through most of the nausea.

We were home for six days before heading back to Dallas for his Thursday chemo appointment. It was a longer day than usual, but Owen did great. We’re back home now, and he has another weekend of injections before he gets a two-week break. The shots are not his favorite part, but he says they’re not that bad.

This round of chemo has made him more nauseated, and his appetite has decreased since he’s no longer on steroids. We’re learning to take it one day at a time — no day or even minute is the same. Chemo brings a lot of unpredictable side effects, and we’re along for the ride. We are so thankful every day that Jehovah has given us this time with Owen, and we’re grateful his body is responding well to the treatment.

Prayers continue, along with hopes for a future when these treatments will just be fleeting memories of the past. Thank you for all your prayers and continued support.

06/24/2025

Owenito

06/24/2025

Owen Update
Owen just completed five consecutive days of chemo infusions to kick off Phase 2 of his treatment. This particular type of chemo has been highly effective in previous phases at targeting and eliminating the cancer cells. He’ll receive this same treatment twice during Phase 2.
Last night, Owen was able to take a shower and rest on clean sheets—something that may seem small but brought a real sense of comfort. It’s the little things that make a big difference.
He now gets a two-day break before heading back to clinic on Thursday for his weekly infusion appointment. We'll be in Dallas every Thursday moving forward. Some weeks we may need to stay a few days at a time, and thanks to the Ronald McDonald House, that’s been made possible. We are incredibly grateful.
We thank Jehovah for making the path forward so clear and providing what Owen needs every step of the way.
The first five infusion days of this phase were relatively short—about an hour each. But the upcoming weekly infusion days will be a bit longer, which may leave Owen more fatigued. While he’ll only need to be in the clinic once a week, he will continue to receive daily chemotherapy at home.
This weekend, something profound shifted in how we view Owen. A fellow child patient reminded us that a warrior is someone who chooses to train for battle. Owen never asked for this. He didn’t prepare for it, and he certainly never wanted it. And yet, he endures. Even on the days when he doesn't want to move or speak, he keeps going.
Owen is more than a warrior. He is an inspiration. A child with unwavering faith in Jehovah, deep love for his family, friends, and pets, and a strength that shines even in silence.
To everyone who’s been praying, sharing his story, and donating—thank you. Your support allows us to stay focused on helping Owen heal and to inspire others who may one day face this path.
With love and gratitude,
—Owen’s Family

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