02/16/2022
Integrity
What do you do when no one is looking
All of my life, I heard this term thrown around, but I never understood the importance of it until I got older.
I see people complaining all of the time that they're not where they want to be in their life.
They don't have the body they want...
They don't do what they love...
They don't save enough money...
They aren't where they want to be spiritually...
I get it, it's tough. I too often find myself saying the exact same things at times.
When I find myself saying these things, the first thing I like to do is be REAL honest with myself.
Did I truly do the things in the dark when no one was watching to have those things??
Every time I ask that question I realized it all came down to a lack of integrity on my end.
I didn't do the things that needed to get done, to get the things I wanted to get.
I'll give you an example for each of these...
Let's say you want to change the way you look, but for some reason, it's just not working out.
More times than not, it's because when no one is watching, your overeating, not showing up to do your workouts, or not doing the cardio that's asked of you.
Let's say you want to do what you love.
More times than not, it's because when you get home from school or work, instead of trying to build your business or your skills. You're sitting at home watching the newest season of "The Last Bear Killer" and you just "have" to watch it.
(PS, I don't think the last bear killer is a real show 😂)
Let's say you don't save enough money.
More times than not, it's because when no ones watching, you're going and buying it on stupid stuff. You're keeping up with someone that you're comparing yourself to, or just spending way too much time on amazon.
Finally, let's say you're not where you want to be spiritual.
Yeah, you're showing up on Sundays, but more times than not, every morning you decide to prioritize things over you're doing your quiet time. Or you would rather sleep in than sit down and read the word and pray.
What you do when no one is watching determines what you achieve when everyone is watching.
If you want to be good, work when you're supposed to and when people are watching
If you want to be great, work when you don't have to and when no one is giving you praise or watching.
Go be great