07/13/2024
When I was getting ready to get pregnant, my best friend was diagnosed with infertility.
We did an IUI just days apart from each other. I got pregnant and she did not.
We had lots of conversations leading up to this time about how she wanted to receive the news and boundaries she may need if I got pregnant and she didn’t.
There was some distance, but lots of grace and understanding. She even attended my birth 🩷
A few weeks after my wife and I experienced our stillbirth, this same best friend found out, against all odds, she was unexpectedly pregnant.
The conversations have continued, and through so much honesty and love we continue to be as close as ever and have an amazing friendship.
This post of information was inspired by our experience together. We collaborated on it and it reflects our thoughts, we can’t speak for everyone in this senario. I hope it’s helpful for friendships navigate this nuanced, tender, and beautiful time 🩷