Empowered Life Counseling, PLLC

Empowered Life Counseling, PLLC In-network with:
BlueCross BlueShield, HealthChoice, Cigna, United Healthcare, UMR, Quiktrip

🇺🇸 Veterans Day 🇺🇸 Today, we honor the courage, sacrifice, and service of all who’ve worn the uniform. To every veteran—...
11/11/2025

🇺🇸 Veterans Day 🇺🇸
Today, we honor the courage, sacrifice, and service of all who’ve worn the uniform.
To every veteran—thank you for your strength, your commitment, and your legacy.
You remind us what it means to show up for something bigger than ourselves.

Whether you're a hero in boots or a loved one holding down the home front, your story matters.
We see you. We remember. We’re grateful.

Some parts of us feel the pressure to do more, be more, save more. They carry the weight of urgency, of proving, of resc...
11/10/2025

Some parts of us feel the pressure to do more, be more, save more. They carry the weight of urgency, of proving, of rescuing. And while their intentions are noble, they often leave us exhausted and disconnected from our true Self.

But what if healing doesn’t begin with striving?
What if it begins with creating a quiet clearing inside—a space where our parts can rest, and be with Self?

In IFS, we learn that when we pause and turn inward with curiosity and compassion, something sacred happens. The song of our life—our essence—begins to emerge. Not forced. Not grandiose. Just true.

✨ You don’t have to save the world today.
✨ You don’t have to have it all figured out.
✨ You can simply sit in your clearing, breathe, and wait for the song that is you to rise.

And when it does, you’ll know exactly how to offer yourself to this world—so worthy of your presence.

Happy  ! Please, drive slowly this evening.  Don't be reckless.  But be "Wreckless". (Don't get into a wreck!  Don't hit...
10/31/2025

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Please, drive slowly this evening. Don't be reckless. But be "Wreckless". (Don't get into a wreck! Don't hit kids!)

Be safe. Be kind.

Have a great, safe weekend!

-Ferg



















✨ "All parts are welcome." – Dick SchwartzIn the journey of healing, we often try to silence or exile the parts of ourse...
10/27/2025

✨ "All parts are welcome." – Dick Schwartz

In the journey of healing, we often try to silence or exile the parts of ourselves that feel too angry, too anxious, too needy, or too ashamed. But what if those parts aren’t broken? What if they’re just trying to protect us in the only way they know how?

IFS teaches us that every part of us has a purpose—and when we meet them with compassion instead of judgment, we begin to heal from the inside out.

✨ Even the most disruptive parts are trying to protect us. Their methods may be extreme, but their intentions are rooted in survival.

🕰️ Many parts are frozen in time, stuck in past traumas where their roles were once necessary. They’re not “bad”—they’re burdened.

💡 When these parts begin to trust that it’s safe to step out of their roles, they reveal their true gifts. They become allies, offering wisdom, creativity, and strength to the system.

This is the beauty of parts work: it’s not about silencing or fixing—it’s about listening, understanding, and inviting transformation.

đź’¬ What part of you needs a little more compassion today?

Happy  ! When the boss is away, the kids will play!   Love our staff meetings at ELC.  Today we got to staff a case with...
10/24/2025

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When the boss is away, the kids will play! Love our staff meetings at ELC. Today we got to staff a case with Kelly and watch some therapy film (of yours truly). Love sharpening our clinical skills together.

Have a great weekend, crew!

-Ferg





















Sometimes, in our relationships, we find ourselves stuck in the same arguments, the same reactions, the same feelings—ov...
10/18/2025

Sometimes, in our relationships, we find ourselves stuck in the same arguments, the same reactions, the same feelings—over and over again.
These patterns aren’t random. They’re part of a negative cycle.

✨ The first step toward change is noticing the cycle.

Noticing when you are in the cycle can help you slow down and see your actual needs underneath all those feelings so you can more effectively communicate them.

Slow down. Notice the Cycle. See the negative dance.

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Congratulations to Latasha on completing her training in Emotionally Focused Therapy! 🎉If you knew LaTasha, you would be...
10/03/2025

Congratulations to Latasha on completing her training in Emotionally Focused Therapy! 🎉
If you knew LaTasha, you would be as inspired as we are to continue to hone our craft and master new therapy skills and techniques. I love nerding out with her on this stuff and it sounds like she got a lot out of this training. EXCITEMENT!!!

We’re so proud of the work she does and we are excited for the healing she’ll bring to our clients and their families.

Keep shining, girl! - Your reflection is chasing you! 🌟

Happy !

-Ferg




















“Show me someone who has done something worthwhile, and I'll show you someone who has overcome adversity.”— Lou HoltzBeh...
09/29/2025

“Show me someone who has done something worthwhile, and I'll show you someone who has overcome adversity.”
— Lou Holtz

Behind every meaningful accomplishment is a story of struggle.
Not the kind that’s always visible. Not the kind that gets applause.
But the kind that shapes character, builds resilience, and deepens purpose.
✨ Whether it’s healing from trauma, rebuilding after loss, or simply showing up when it’s hard—adversity is the silent partner in every worthwhile journey.
As a therapist, I’ve witnessed this truth time and time again, as well as in my own life:

The most powerful breakthroughs often come from the most painful breakdowns.
So if you’re in a season of challenge, know this—
You’re not off track. You’re being refined.
Your story is being written in strength, not perfection.
🕊️ You are becoming someone who will inspire others simply by surviving and choosing to grow.
💬 Drop a 💪 if you’ve overcome something that made you stronger.
Tag someone whose journey reminds you of this truth.

Laura shares a heartfelt reflection on the impacts of su***de on her life—and how that loss shaped her path toward helpi...
09/19/2025

Laura shares a heartfelt reflection on the impacts of su***de on her life—and how that loss shaped her path toward helping others heal. Her story is tender, honest, and full of compassion for anyone who has experienced deep loss.

If you’re grieving, struggling, or simply needing to feel less alone, Laura’s words may offer comfort and some direction for you. Don't go through your battle alone. Healing is possible.

















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Tulsa, OK
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