Melissa Shakti - Transformational Life Coach

02/20/2025

If you like bourbon…you’ll love this…

11/19/2024

Never test your partner—you’ll always be the one who loses.

Let’s talk about those moments when we “test” our partners—dropping hints, playing games, or creating situations just to see how they’ll react. Maybe it’s ignoring their texts to see if they’ll chase you or setting up a scenario to “prove” their loyalty.

These tests might feel like a way to validate our fears or needs, but here’s the truth: they erode trust and create distance. Testing isn’t love—it’s control wrapped in insecurity.

Instead of playing games, try this:
👉 Be clear about your needs. Say what you want and why it matters to you.
👉 Address your fears. If you’re testing, it often means there’s an underlying wound asking to be healed.
👉 Build trust, not traps. Healthy relationships thrive on open communication, not hidden agendas.

When we test, we risk damaging the connection we’re trying so hard to protect. So next time you catch yourself setting up a “test,” pause and ask yourself: What am I really afraid of? Lean into that vulnerability instead of the games—it’s where true intimacy grows.

What’s your take? Have you ever fallen into this pattern? Let’s get real in the comments.

11/15/2024

because and don’t ever let another person or experience teach you differently.

11/13/2024

10/23/2024

💎 Oh! This one is going to be GOOD! 💎 (TIME UPDATE!)

🌟 From Wounded to Whole: Healing Your Inner Child & Inner Critic 🌟

Do you ever feel like you’re carrying around the weight of old wounds? Struggling to silence the critical voice inside your head? You’re not alone. These patterns, often rooted in our childhood, can hold us back from living a life full of love, peace, and connection.

Join me LIVE as we dive deep into the journey of healing—transforming those wounds into wisdom and learning to love every part of yourself, including that inner child and critic. 💫

✨ It’s time to break the cycles.
✨ It’s time to step into wholeness.

Let’s start this journey together! Don’t miss this chance to reconnect with yourself in ways that can transform your relationships and your life.

📅 Oct. 28th @ 3:00 central (5:00 PT)
🗣️ Melissa Shakti & Nadia Ahrens

Let me know in the comments if you’re ready to show up for yourself. It’s your time! ✨