Coach Gee

30/09/2025

You didn’t grow up learning love
You grew up learning labor

How to keep the peace
How to anticipate moods
How to make yourself smaller just to feel safe
How to be good enough to be chosen

That’s not love.
That’s a blueprint.

A survival-based instruction manual handed to you by people who never learned how to rest in love either.

No wonder rest makes you anxious.
No wonder receiving feels wrong.
No wonder you keep choosing hard love over healthy love.

But what if there’s another way?

🌀 Start with the Pivot™
Download the free Pivot Guide
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And book your free 30-minute Survival Love™ Session

It’s time to lay the old blueprint down
You don’t have to earn safe love
You get to receive it

Survival Love™ is not your identity.
It was your instruction.
But now… you’re the author.

30/09/2025

26/09/2025

Healing does not have to feel like surviving.
Survival Love™ Therapy and Coaching is where we pause, pivot, and try again.

Trying again is not starting over. It is returning to yourself. Every choice we make, every relationship we reach for, even the ones that hurt, is the nervous system searching for a connection that will not make us shrink, disconnect, or abandon ourselves.

Here, we pause long enough to notice the loop. We pivot toward our Wise Self. And we try again — by way of returning home.

This is not about perfection. It is about presence. And you are worthy of that presence.

🌀 Book your free 30-minute Survival Love™ Therapy and Coaching session today through the link in my bio or at linktr.ee/thepartnerinhealing

25/09/2025

When life feels heavy, you don’t always need an escape. You need a return.

Pause long enough to hear your own breath.
Pivot™ by noticing where your Survival Self™ is speaking louder than your Wise Self™.
Return by choosing one thing that reconnects you to you—silence, nature, or a simple act of stillness.

This is what the Sacred Pivot™ teaches us. You don’t have to fix everything at once. You only need to choose one pause, one pivot, one return. Again and again.

✨ Start your journey today.
Download your free Sacred Pivot™ eBook from my Linktree: linktr.ee/thepartnerinhealing

Georgette Josephs, M.A.
The Partner in Healing™

25/09/2025

Some of us didn’t learn love. We learned labor.
We learned to earn our place.
To perform for protection.
To serve so we wouldn’t be left.
And in all that survival,
We were never shown how to hold softness.
Or how to be held.

This isn’t just about your mother.
This is about the blueprint of love you inherited.
And how to finally rewrite it.

📍 Download the free Pivot™ Guide
📍 Book a Survival Love™ Session
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18/09/2025

The viral reaction to these songs often centers the daughter’s ache — and it’s valid.
But it often forgets the ache of the father who was never fathered…
And the boy inside him who was never mothered.

We ask why he couldn’t love better.
Why he couldn’t stay.
Why he couldn’t protect what mattered.

But no one asks:
Who protected him?
Who held his pain?
Who showed him that love could be soft and safe?

I’m not here to start a gender war.
I’m here to name the survival loop.

I’m not silencing the pain in the lyrics.
I’m adding the missing verse.

Because both women and men carry wounds.
And both are expected to show up in love
with tools they were never handed.

So maybe it’s not that he didn’t care.
Maybe he was never cared for.

Maybe he didn’t fail you.
Maybe he was failed first.
💬 Comment “HE DESERVES LOVE TOO” if this opened something in you.
📩 Send this to a brother, a partner, a son —
any man who needed to be held before he was ever asked to hold.

📥 Link in bio to download the Pivot Guide
A free resource to help pause the loop, not repeat it.


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13/09/2025

Girl… it’s been a long time coming.
And now I know… it’s been worth the wait.

There were seasons when I didn’t know if I’d ever feel safe in my own skin.
Seasons when I was still auditioning for love, still performing to be held.
Seasons when the survival version of me was the only one who knew how to keep me safe.

But today?
It feels like springtime in winter.
It feels like Christmas in June.
It feels like heaven has opened up its gates—for me and the little girl inside me.

I paused.
I pivoted.
I tried again.

This glow isn’t perfection.
It’s presence.
It’s the soft reward of finally coming home to myself.

So if you’re healing your own mother wound…
If you’ve been walking through survival fog alone…
If you’ve been learning how to mother yourself with tenderness and truth…

You’re not alone.
Your glow is coming too.

🌿 Survival Love™
🌿 The Sacred Pivot™
🌿 The Try Again™ Path

Download your free Sacred Pivot™ e-book at:
https://linktr.ee/thepartnerinhealing

11/09/2025

You can hold several truths at once.
Your mom may have done her best.
She may have given what she could.
She may have been present in ways others only dreamed of.
And still, you ache.

Still, there were moments where your needs weren’t met.
Emotions that were never held.
Tender parts of you that stayed hidden to stay safe.

This post is for the ones who feel guilty even naming their mother wound.
The ones who silently suffer because no one ever screamed.
The ones who learned to perform instead of express.

You are not betraying her by telling the truth.
You are honoring the you that didn’t get seen.
You’re allowed to say,
“She meant well… but I needed more.”

That ache is valid.
That silence has weight.
And you don’t have to carry it alone.

➡️ Ready to pivot? Download your free Sacred Pivot™ eBook here:
https://linktr.ee/thepartnerinhealing

11/09/2025

You can hold several truths at once.
Your mom may have done her best.
She may have given what she could.
She may have been present in ways others only dreamed of.
And still, you ache.

Still, there were moments where your needs weren’t met.
Emotions that were never held.
Tender parts of you that stayed hidden to stay safe.

This post is for the ones who feel guilty even naming their mother wound.
The ones who silently suffer because no one ever screamed.
The ones who learned to perform instead of express.

You are not betraying her by telling the truth.
You are honoring the you that didn’t get seen.
You’re allowed to say,
“She meant well… but I needed more.”

That ache is valid.
That silence has weight.
And you don’t have to carry it alone.

➡️ Ready to pivot? Download your free Sacred Pivot™ eBook here:
https://linktr.ee/thepartnerinhealing

11/09/2025

Some of us didn’t learn to rest in love.
We learned to earn it.
And not through connection—but through performance.

You became “the strong one,” “the responsible one,” “the easy one.”
Not because you were fully okay, but because it kept things from getting worse.

That wasn’t confidence. That was conditioning.
That wasn’t peace. That was pattern.

When love wasn’t safe, your nervous system made survival your identity.
Now that you know better, you don’t have to live like that.

This is what Survival Love™ reveals.
You can retire the role and reclaim who you were before the performance.

🧭 Download your free Pivot Guide
📍linktr.ee/thepartnerinhealing
You’re not alone. The Partner in Healing™

09/09/2025

A mother who wasn’t safe didn’t give you a safe start.
She gave you survival.

That means instead of play, you were reading the room.
Instead of rest, you were planning how to prevent the next upset.
Instead of a carefree heart, you got an anxious one.

You memorized her moods just to feel slightly safe.
You became her emotional translator. Her stress sponge.
Her confidant. Her do-it-all child.
You walked on eggshells to protect the woman who was supposed to protect you.

And now?

You flinch when people raise their voice.
You over-apologize.
You check your phone five times after sending a text.
You brace yourself when someone’s quiet.
You say “I’m just sensitive,” but the truth is…
You weren’t raised to be carefree. You were raised to be alert.

🟢 This is what we call Survival Love™ — when connection was built on hypervigilance. When love was earned through usefulness, silence, and self-erasure.

And even if she never hit you,
Even if she put food on the table,
Even if she stayed…

If your body didn’t get to feel safe, that was the wound.

And you don’t have to keep living like that’s the only kind of love you deserve.

💬 Share this if it resonates.
🧠 Tag someone who’s still untangling survival from love.
📍Comment “Womb Ache” if you’re in this season — I’ll reply with something gentle.

This is Post 15 in the Survival Love™ Mama Issues Series.
More posts and pivots to come.
The ache has a language — and you’re allowed to stop translating it alone.

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The Partner in Healing™
Survival Love™ | Womb Ache™ | The Decision Pivot™

08/09/2025

She didn’t have to scream.
She didn’t have to hit you.
She didn’t have to curse you out.

Sometimes the wound came from her silence.
From the way you had to study her moods to stay safe.
From the anxiety you felt when her love was unpredictable.
From the way you tried to earn her softness, her smile, her seeing of you.

Mother wounds aren’t always loud.
Sometimes they sound like overachieving.
Like walking on eggshells.
Like people pleasing.
Like chronic fear of being misunderstood or left.

If your heart is anxious in relationships, if you keep chasing safety,
if you confuse love with proving yourself…

This is the work of Survival Love™.

💚 Part of the Survival Love™ Series
📌 Save this post if you’re just now realizing you’ve been surviving your relationships.