19/12/2023
Are generally distorted
I know this because I hear things likeā¦
āI was cleared for everything at 6 weeks, but when I workout I leak p*e or have pain in my hipsā
āItās been 2 months since birth and s*x still hurtā
āMy cesarean scar feels tight and painful when I do ab workouts and Iām 3 months postpartumā
āLifting 5lbs feels hard, I was lifting 15lbs during pregnancy!ā
āWhen I wipe, I feel/see a bulge⦠what is it and why?ā
āI donāt feel connected to my body since birth.ā
For many years weāve been led to believe that 6 weeks after birth you naturally heal and get back to life as usual.
If by 6 weeks the expectation of naturally healed isnāt meant, thatās a perfect recipe for disappointment and emotional turmoil.
Solution: accurate postpartum expectations
Ever go to a movie thatās been hyped up for 3 months, the trailer is soooo good, you canāt wait to watch it, and itās one of the movies you donāt wanna wait until it comes out on Netflix, so you race to the theater to see itā¦
and all the good parts where in the trailer, the story line was subpar, the character development wasnāt there, and the ending left you confused.
Thatās a bummer.
When we assume a movie may suck, then it turns out to be kinda comical and had you laughing at least 10x more than you ever thought the movie would, thatās a good feeling!
More accurate expectation: Postpartum healing isnāt complete at 6 weeks. Bodies after baby feel different, maybe even disconnected (although youāre physically connected), prolapse is common, leaking urine or poo or gas is possible, returning to exercise doesnāt start where you left off pre pregnancy or even by the end of pregnancy, but in a brand new space!
Recognize this so you can bounce FORWARD and stop attempting to bounce back.