Principles Of Pleasure

Principles Of Pleasure I help women own their pleasure & power without shame 🍒
Stop silencing your desires . . . Built from love, loss, and laughter.

Start living turned on & unapologetic
Start with my FREE 3-day Sensual Spark Mama first, but always a woman who refuses to dim her light while making memories along the way.

12/20/2025

If pleasure has felt confusing, performative, or like too much work, this is your sign. You don’t need fixing. You need reframing. That’s what happens inside Pleasure U. Join us. Check the bio.

Day Four.  . Choose yourself first. 🍒 Decline an invitation and feel good about it.No overexplaining.No guilt spiral.No ...
12/20/2025

Day Four. . Choose yourself first. 🍒 Decline an invitation and feel good about it.

No overexplaining.
No guilt spiral.
No makeup date you don’t want.

Protecting your peace is a pleasure practice.

If your shoulders dropped, it counts. 🍒

12/20/2025

I perform burlesque.My stage name, Kitt Fatale wasn’t chosen for sparkle. It was chosen for power. Inspired by Eartha Kitt and femme fatale energy. Seductive pleasure, live in color.

Two weeks in and twenty-five women have already said yes to Pleasure U-niversity. That matters!!!!Right now, we’re settl...
12/19/2025

Two weeks in and twenty-five women have already said yes to Pleasure U-niversity. That matters!!!!

Right now, we’re settling in and getting oriented, learning how this space works, and letting curiosity lead instead of pressure. This is the soft part. The “get your bearings, pour a drink, exhale a little” phase.

The semester officially begins January 1, and when it does, we’ll start moving with intention. We’ll have weekly lessons, live conversations that don’t whisper, and pleasure framed as a grown-woman practice rather than a guilty indulgence.

If you’ve been circling this space, wondering if now is the right time… it is. There’s still room to join us before class is in session.

🍒 https://www.skool.com/pleasure-u-niversity-9244 (also in b.i.o)

Join us before January 1 and start the semester from the beginning. A seat is waiting for you

Day three. Your body notices. 🍒 Wear your favorite underwear on a regular-ass day.Not for an occasion.Not for anyone els...
12/19/2025

Day three. Your body notices. 🍒 Wear your favorite underwear on a regular-ass day.

Not for an occasion.
Not for anyone else.
Just because it feels good against your skin.

Let it remind you that pleasure doesn’t need an audience.
Confidence doesn’t need a reason.

If it made you walk a little different, it counted. 🍒

Day Two . . .You don’t have to be everything for everyone this holiday season. Even if it’s “tradition.”Decide what you’...
12/18/2025

Day Two . . .You don’t have to be everything for everyone this holiday season. Even if it’s “tradition.”

Decide what you’re unavailable for. . .
🍒 Unavailable for rushing.
🍒 Unavailable for obligation.
🍒 Unavailable for being touched, asked, or expected without consent.

When you protect your energy, desire has room to breathe.

12/17/2025

Short, sweet, and straight to the point. That rise, that rush, that warm release after… pleasure really does move like the ocean. Let yourself ride the wave.

Day One . . . We’re starting easy and delicious. 🍒 Do something indulgent.Maybe it’s eating the chocolate cake without s...
12/17/2025

Day One . . . We’re starting easy and delicious. 🍒 Do something indulgent.

Maybe it’s eating the chocolate cake without sharing.
Maybe it’s sitting in a bathtub full of red Jello.
We don’t judge here.

No explaining. . . No earning it. . . . Just letting yourself enjoy something because you want to.

If it made you smile, it counted. 🍒

12/17/2025

Pleasure doesn’t start and stop with s3x. It lives in the way you slow down, the way you touch your own life, the way you let enjoyment land without rushing past it. S3x can be one expression of pleasure, but it’s not the requirement. Your body already knows how to feel good. You’re just remembering how to listen. 🍒

As we head into the last 15 days of 2025, I don’t want to just push through or survive on fumes. I want to feel good in ...
12/16/2025

As we head into the last 15 days of 2025, I don’t want to just push through or survive on fumes. I want to feel good in the middle of it.

So I’m sharing 12 Days of Holiday Pleasure.
One small, doable thing a day. Nothing overwhelming. Nothing performative.

We’ll talk about boundaries that protect your energy, consent that actually feels good, solo pleasure, everyday pleasure, and partnered pleasure without obligation.

This is about staying in your body when the season gets loud. About choosing moments of enjoyment on purpose. About ending the year a little more connected to yourself than when it started.

Day one drops tomorrow.
Let’s not just survive this season. Let’s enjoy parts of it.

12/15/2025

Let’s clear up three big misconceptions about pleasure. 🍒 It’s not just s*x. 🍒 It doesn’t require permission or perfection. 🍒 And it sure isn’t a performance. Pleasure can be playful, messy, slow, fast, teasing, and deliciously inconvenient. When you stop overthinking and start actually receiving, everything shifts.

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