02/11/2026
As special needs parents, we get very good at watching everything…schedules, medications, school updates, therapy notes. We are constantly tuned in to what our kids need.
But burnout doesn’t usually come from one big moment. It builds quietly when we stop noticing how we’re doing.
Here’s a simple way to change that without adding another thing to your to-do list:
The next time you pick up your phone to scroll, take 10 seconds to check in with yourself first. Just ask:
How am I actually doing right now? 🤔
Maybe you notice you’re holding tension in your shoulders. Maybe you realize you’re thirsty. Maybe you just need one slow breath before moving on.
That tiny pause is a form of self-care. And when you practice it throughout the day, it helps interrupt the slow slide into caregiver burnout.
You don’t need an hour to take care of yourself. Sometimes you just need a moment, repeated often enough to matter.