11/11/2025
Herbs for Children
(Obviously, not a photo of children, but I call my kids my chicklets, so…) In honor of my first grandbaby’s first birthday, I decided to do a post on herbs for children.
Standard Disclaimer: You are the parent and are responsible for verifying what I say with other sources, be that your doctor, witchdoctor, mother, or Rosemary Gladstar. The herbs listed below are ones that I would not hesitate to give to my own kids, or my grandchild if her parents OK’d it.
Chamomile (Matricaria recutita): Great for generalized fussiness. Chamomile works on the nerves and the digestive system to help calm and soothe. It also works for anxiety in children, although it can make them a little drowsy. Chamomile infused in oil can be used for muscle pain in littles as well.
Catnip (Nepeta cataria): Another one that is great for digestion and nerves. Catnip tends to be a bit more sedative, so a bed time tea. It also does not taste fabulous, so maybe combine it with another herb that has more ‘taste’ to it, like elderberries, lemon balm, or peppermint. Rubbing a little of the tea on gums helps with teething.
Elder (Sambucus canadensis): Both the berries and the flowers are child safe. The berries are one of the few proven herbal antivirals and taste delicious. The flowers have a delicate taste, and work to lower fevers. Great herb for cold and flu season.
Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis): Yum. Lemon balm is one of the best tasting teas in my opinion. It also is anti-viral, especially for herpetic viruses like cold sores and chicken pox. It helps to soothe the nerves in both a physical and emotional sense. Lemon balm is one of my favorite nervines.
Licorice (Glycyrrhiza glabra) and Marshmallow (Althaea officinalis): I”m putting these two together because their actions are very similar. Both make a very mucilaginous tea which is great for soothing sore throats and settling a cough. I use marshmallow in my cough syrup for that reason. Licorice is sweeter, but (to me) doesn’t have much more of a taste than sweet, so while you can use it in other teas like catnip, it just makes for a slightly icky-tasting sweet tea. One of marshmallows original uses was for wounds. A tea used as a wash is really nice for those scrapes and abrasions of childhood.
Nettles (Urtica dioica): These can be eaten if well-cooked (the little hairs on the plant are very irritating) or used as a tea. Nettle is great for allergies in the spring or fall, but it is very drying to the system. Combine it with moistening herbs like licorice or marshmallow. Nettles are also very mineral rich and a very healthy green. They can be added to soup to help disguise them if needed. The calcium that nettles provide can help with growing pains and formation of dense bone tissue.
Peppermint (Mentha piperita): Really tasty herb for kiddos. It is a relaxant, so not for use with kids with reflux issues – otherwise it is great for an upset tummy.
Oats (Avena sativa): Oat is considered very restorative for the nervous system. Oats (either in cereal or tea form) are very moisturizing and help soothe irritation. If you think about how we use them topically (oatmeal baths for kids with chicken pox) – we can also use them internally for emotional irritation as well. Oats help with long-term stress and irritation as well as nervous exhaustion.
Now – important part – dosages. There are several ways to figure dosages, including by weight. The simplest ones are the ones below:
Young’s Rule: Add 12 to your child’s age, and divide the child’s age by this total. For example, a four-year-old: 4+12=16, 4/16=0.25. The child’s dose would be 1/4 of the adult dose.
You can also use this table when the adult dosage is one cup:
Age (years) Dosage