01/27/2026
Sleep – part 1
“Sleep like a baby.” A phrase obviously coined by someone who has never been a parent. Sleep was never a problem for me – falling asleep or staying asleep – even when working nights for about 30 years. Then menopause hit – and things have not been the same since. This series will be over things that can hopefully help you sleep if that is also something you struggle with.
Why is sleep so important? I’m sure that it is not a surprise that your performance (of any type) is affected by lack of sleep. It can decrease your reaction time, increase errors, impair your memory, and reduce your motivation. Losing sleep can cause elevated cortisol which can lead to insulin resistance and greatly affect immune function. People that suffer from insomnia are much more likely to suffer from depression and anxiety.
Sleep allows our bodies to heal and our moods and hormones to stabilize. Growth hormone is only one of the hormones that is secreted while we sleep and is responsible for regeneration of tissues and immune functions. Sleep is imperative for good mental health.
Before we get into herbs and flower essences to help with sleep, let’s go over some simple sleep hygiene: What are ways to prepare our bodies and brains for bed?
Preparation for sleep takes place starting in the afternoon. It is best to avoid caffeine or stimulant containing items after about 2 pm. That mid-afternoon coffee or soda you have to help you get thru after-lunch meetings may be sabotaging your sleep. So might be that after supper workout – it’s best to avoid strenuous exercise for at least 3 hours before your bedtime. Eating can also affect sleep. Going to bed with a full stomach can contribute to night-time indigestion and reflux. A light snack with protein and complex carbs can be helpful if you find yourself waking after 2-3 hours of sleep.
Maintaining a routine is helpful, no matter what shift you work. Things like spending time in the sun every day and sleeping in complete darkness take advantage of your Circadian rhythm to promote restfulness
Avoid blue light for 2-3 hours prior to bed. This is light from sources like computers, electronics, and phones. Blue light can work as a stimulant and suppresses melatonin production (the sleep hormone). Prepare your bedroom with comfortable clothing (or none), comfortable bed linens, and a comfortable mattress.
Try to avoid using your bedroom for anything but sleeping and s*x. Avoid alcohol – while it’s a depressant, it can contribute to insomnia. And for a lot of us, we have to watch our fluid intake to avoid those middle-of-the-night bathroom trips.
Ways to relax before bed:
Reading a book under warm white or yellow light
Warm (not hot) bath or even a footbath
Lower the lights in your home an hour before bedtime.
Very light exercise, like some yoga poses or tai chi
Journaling. This can sometimes help with circular thought that plague many of us at night.
Prayer/meditation.
Sleeping in a cool room (but with enough covers that you stay warm)
Add a white noise machine or earplugs to avoid stimulating noises.
I’ll cover herbs starting next week. In the meantime, maybe some of these suggestions can help you get the rest you need. Good night.