02/20/2026
Have you ever tried to set a boundary and immediately felt bad, mean, or guilty?
Guess what? That’s actually really normal.
If you grew up in a home or an environment where boundaries were not the norm, it’s going to be really hard to set them.
BUT it is our responsibility to start teaching people what we need, our expectations, or even what we’ll allow and won’t allow in our life; how we expect to be treated.
If you’re just starting on that process of setting boundaries, have grace with yourself, with the other person, and know that you might need outside support.
Give yourself some time, learn new things, and know that the end goal is healthier relationships.
Stick with it — it’ll be worth it. 🌱