16/06/2025
An Open Letter to the Fans Who Might’ve Forgotten What Really Matters
Hi. Just checking in.
You say it’s just for fun.
Just for “kilig.”
Just entertainment, right?
And you’re right — it is entertainment.
Reality TV, love teams, weekly twists — we all need a break sometimes.
We all deserve moments of lightness in a heavy world.
But when does entertainment turn into obsession?
When you're spending money you don’t really have —
Voting endlessly for people who won’t remember your name —
Losing sleep over pairings that might not even last past the closing credits —
Is it still fun? Or is it something else now?
You cry harder over evictions than your own disappointments.
You defend love teams like they’re your religion — while your own relationships fade in silence.
You call it loyalty, but sometimes it just looks like escapism.
And hey — no judgment. We all escape somehow.
But if the fantasy is costing you your time, peace, or purpose,
Maybe it’s time to ask:
What are you really holding on to — and what are you letting go of to keep it?
You don’t owe this show your identity.
You don’t have to turn every moment into war.
You can enjoy the game… without becoming a pawn in it.
So by all means, cheer.
Smile at the moments that make you feel light.
But don’t forget:
The most important “Big 4” you should fight for is your peace, growth, energy, and truth.
— Someone who watches, but doesn’t worship
