Mother's Ear Doula

Mother's Ear Doula Birth doula + NICU advocate in Henry County, GA. At Mother’s Ear Doula, I am passionate about empowering and supporting mothers through pregnancy and birth.

Offering trauma-informed support, research-based birth education, and empowering care for pregnancy, labor, postpartum, and high-risk journeys. As a trauma-informed doula, I provide compassionate, evidence-based care to help you feel confident and informed every step of the way. Whether it’s your first baby or you’re seeking a more positive experience, I ensure you feel heard, respected, and supported. Serving families within 1.5 hours of McDonough, GA, I advocate for your birth rights, guide you through decision-making, and create a nurturing, personalized environment tailored to your needs. Every mother deserves to feel empowered and valued, and I’m here to help you achieve the birth experience you deserve.

02/17/2026

🌟 The 555 Postpartum Rule, a valuable guideline to support your recovery and nurture your body and mind. 🤱💕 You don’t need to jump back into the daily grind and chaos! Take time to nurture yourself and the new little life you’ve brought earthside.
🛌 Five Days in Bed: Give yourself the gift of rest for the first five days after childbirth. Embrace the cozy sanctuary of your bed, allowing your body to heal, bond with your little one, and adjust to the new rhythm of motherhood. Focus on skin to skin and responsive feeding.
🛌 Five Days on the Bed: During the subsequent five days, gradually transition to a few trips to other living areas, welcome FEW guests. Engage in gentle activities (no chores), enjoying cuddles with your baby, or practicing light stretching to promote recovery.
🛌 Five Days around the Bed: As you enter the final five days, venture beyond your home. Take a short 10 minute walk and savor the fresh air. Listen to your body and pace yourself, allowing for a gradual return to your regular routine. Let the support you have help you with chores.
This 555 Postpartum Rule, totalling 15 days of intentional self-care, provides a framework to honor your body's need for rest, recovery, and adjustment during this transformative time. Remember, every journey is unique, so embrace your own pace and allow yourself the time and space to heal and flourish. You're doing an amazing job, super mama! 💖🌸
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Ever had your birth plan laughed off by your provider with a “We’ll do what’s safest”? 😑It’s frustrating, disheartening,...
02/13/2026

Ever had your birth plan laughed off by your provider with a “We’ll do what’s safest”? 😑

It’s frustrating, disheartening, and honestly, disrespectful. Your birth plan is your voice, your choices, and your rights—it deserves respect.

Swipe through to see why this is a red flag, and how you can advocate for your choices with confidence. If you're ready to take charge of your birth experience and feel supported every step of the way, join my email list for more tips and guidance. 👇

Quick question—have you ever walked out of an appointment thinking,“I had questions… why didn’t I say them like I practi...
02/13/2026

Quick question—have you ever walked out of an appointment thinking,
“I had questions… why didn’t I say them like I practiced?”

Or replayed the conversation later, wishing you’d pushed back just a little more?

If that sounds familiar, I want you to hear this clearly:
that experience isn’t a confidence problem.
It’s a communication gap.

Most pregnant parents do know what matters to them.
They just haven’t been taught how medical conversations actually work—especially in fast-paced settings where time, hierarchy, and assumptions are doing a lot of the talking.

So when you feel rushed, brushed off, or subtly dismissed, it’s not because you asked the “wrong” question.
Advocating is a learnable skill, not something you’re supposed to magically know how to do.

And the good news?
Small shifts in awareness, language, and preparation can completely change how these conversations go—without escalating conflict or feeling confrontational.

I break this down in my latest blog:
✨ How to Talk to Your Provider About Birth Preferences (Without Feeling Dismissed)

If you’ve ever left an appointment second-guessing yourself, this one’s for you.
Find it through the link in my bio.

You’re not “too much.”
You’re learning a skill most people were never taught.

— Doula Faye 🌿

02/12/2026

🚨 You have the right to speak up about your birth experience—but how do you do it without feeling like you’re causing a scene? Whether you're navigating a hospital birth or a challenging situation, advocacy doesn’t have to be aggressive. It can be calm, collected, and totally within your control. Ready? Let’s dive in. ⬇️

👉 1. Know Your Rights & Prepare in Advance
When you walk in prepared with knowledge, you're setting yourself up for success. Research your birth rights, understand your options, and know your preferences. The more informed you are, the more confident you’ll feel.

🚨 Common mistake: Relying only on the hospital staff for information. Your birth, your decisions!

👉 2. Practice Calm, Clear Communication
When you make a request, keep it simple and clear. “I’d like to delay cord clamping for at least 2 minutes” is direct and actionable. Don’t worry about being too “nice” or overly apologetic—your needs matter.

🚨 Common mistake: Over-explaining yourself to avoid conflict. Trust me, clarity is your friend here.

👉 3. Find Your Allies
The more people in the room who support your choices, the easier it is to stay calm. Talk with your partner, doula, or any trusted staff members in advance so you have backup when needed.

🚨 Common mistake: Thinking you're on your own. A doula or supportive nurse can make all the difference in standing up for your needs.

👉 4. Use "I" Statements & Stay Calm
You don’t have to argue to advocate. Phrases like, “I feel more comfortable with…” or “I would prefer…” can make a huge difference in how your request is received. Speak from a place of confidence, not confrontation.

🚨 Common mistake: Responding defensively when you feel dismissed. Stay grounded and remember your power in the moment.

👉 5. Have a Backup Plan (and Be Flexible)
Things might not go exactly as you planned, and that’s okay. If something unexpected happens, stay open to alternatives while still holding your ground on what matters most to you.

🚨 Common mistake: Rigidly sticking to one plan. Flexibility is key—keep the essentials intact, but be open to adjusting when needed.

✨ Advocating for yourself is about speaking your truth while maintainin

02/12/2026

Why do so many women feel unheard during birth? 🤔

It’s not just about the noise in the room. It’s the overwhelming pressure of time constraints ⏰, the rush of overworked providers 👩‍⚕️👨‍⚕️, and a healthcare system that often prioritizes efficiency over the personal needs of the birthing person.

When nurses and doctors fall back on their training, it can feel like your preferences are secondary. When the focus is more on the job at hand than the person experiencing it, it leaves you questioning if your voice even matters. 😔

This isn’t just about medical procedures. There’s also the reality of power dynamics ⚖️ in hospitals, the patriarchy 👑, and systemic issues like racism ✊🏽 that further silence the voices of marginalized communities.

But guess what? You don’t have to settle for silence. 🚫

Your intuition is part of your power 💪. Your voice deserves to be heard 📢. And with the right support, you can navigate the complexities of birth feeling seen, heard, and respected. 🌟

If you’re tired of feeling overlooked, I’ve got you covered. Join my email list (link in bio) for more insights and strategies to ensure your voice is central during your birth experience 💬✨

02/11/2026

Not all “consent” is actually consent.
If you felt pressured, guilted, or cornered into saying yes during pregnancy or birth—that’s not a you problem. That’s medical coercion.
And yes, it’s more common than people think.

✨ Want support that actually centers you? Join my email list (link in bio) for empowering tips, advocacy tools, and real-talk breakdowns like this—straight to your inbox.

02/09/2026

Feeling heard in pregnancy care shouldn’t require you to become louder, tougher, or more “medical.” It comes from knowing how to anchor your concerns in a way the system is trained to respond to.

Here’s how to do that—without second-guessing yourself:

1️⃣ Ask for clarity, not permission.
Instead of softening your concerns, ask direct questions: “Can you explain the reasoning behind that?” or “What are the alternatives?” Clear questions invite clear answers. Shrugging things off is often a sign the explanation isn’t solid.

2️⃣ Use the chart strategically.
One of the most powerful phrases you can use is: “Can you document that in my chart?”
Care tends to slow down and sharpen when decisions are formally recorded. A common mistake is assuming charts are neutral—they’re not. They matter.

3️⃣ Ask for a second opinion early.
This isn’t confrontational. It’s informed care. If a recommendation doesn’t sit right, asking for another perspective is reasonable, evidence-based, and well within your rights. Waiting until you’re overwhelmed makes it harder to advocate.

4️⃣ Bring support into the room.
Whether it’s a partner, doula, or trusted support person, having another set of ears changes the dynamic. Providers communicate differently when they know you’re not navigating decisions alone.

5️⃣ Pay attention to patterns, not tone.
Being polite doesn’t equal being listened to. If your questions consistently get brushed off, minimized, or redirected, that’s information. Dismissal doesn’t always sound rude—it often sounds reassuring without substance.

A few weeks ago after a coaching call, a client texted me that when she asked for her refusal to be documented, the tone in the room shifted. Providers paused, agreed to try something different, and stopped brushing her off. Nothing about her changed—just the way the conversation was anchored.

⚠️ Common mistake:
Assuming good care means you shouldn’t need to ask questions. In reality, evidence-based care welcomes them.

You don’t need to be aggressive to be taken seriously. You need tools.

💌 Want help knowing what to ask, how to ask it, and when to push for more information? Join my email list! Link in bio.

02/08/2026

It’s not that your provider can’t educate you—it’s that it’s not their job to teach you everything.⁠
Their role is medical. Your education? That’s personal.⁠

Think of it like expecting your dentist to walk you through meal planning. Helpful? Maybe. Required? Not even close.⁠

And honestly? Most OBs I’ve spoken with agree. I’ve had providers tell me straight up, “That’s what doulas and educators are for.” They expect us to fill in the gaps. That’s not failure—it’s just how the system is set up.⁠

But here’s the problem: no one tells moms that.⁠

Real birth prep isn’t just ‘knowing the stages of labor’—it’s understanding your rights, your options, and your instincts. It’s about being ready when protocols and preferences don’t line up.⁠

That’s why I send out weekly emails packed with smart, grounded, non-boring birth education—so you’re not depending on 10 rushed minutes in a fluorescent room to prep for one of the biggest days of your life.⁠

📬 Wanna start learning on your terms? Join my email list at the link in bio. It's free, easy, and full of “wait no one told me this!” moments.⁠

You deserve to know more than what fits on a clipboard.

02/07/2026

You’ve got options when it comes to where you give birth—but what’s the deal with birth centers? 🤔
They're a peaceful middle ground between home birth and a hospital birth. With more freedom and a calming atmosphere, yet the backup of medical support if needed. Sounds ideal, right?

Want more info like this? Join my email list for all the insights (link in bio). 👆

02/07/2026

"It's weird to care about others' birthing choices."
No, it’s weird to withhold information that could save someone's life.
I’ll be honest—I don’t care what choices you make in birth. I don’t care if you change your mind. I don’t care if you make different choices than I would.
✨ I do care if you are fully informed about birth.
✨ I do care that you recognize when information is being withheld.
✨ I do care that you feel empowered to have an experience you’re proud of.
✨ I do care that you don’t just survive birth, but thrive in it.
✨ I do care that your choices are respected because you have the tools to advocate for yourself and find a provider who listens.
✨ I do care that the choices you make are truly yours, grounded in fully informed consent.

🌟 Want to get empowering information delivered right to your inbox? Join my email list today and stay informed! 💌
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You’ve prepped, you’ve planned, but still feeling unprepared for labor? 😣It's normal to feel that way—even with all the ...
02/06/2026

You’ve prepped, you’ve planned, but still feeling unprepared for labor? 😣

It's normal to feel that way—even with all the books, classes, and birth plans. The truth is, no one can control every moment of labor. But you can control your response to it.

Here’s a secret: It’s not about having everything figured out. It’s about being prepared to adapt and trusting your ability to handle whatever comes your way.

This is where a doula—or any solid birth support—shines. They’ll help guide you through those unexpected moments, keeping you calm and centered. And yes, guided meditations? Total game-changer. 🧘‍♀️

You’re ready for this. You’ve prepared with the right mindset, the right support, and the right tools to face the unknown with confidence.

Swipe through, and if you're feeling anxious about labor, join my email list for more tips on embracing the unexpected with confidence! 💌

If you’ve ever closed Instagram feeling more confused than confident about birth… you’re not doing anything wrong.I see ...
02/06/2026

If you’ve ever closed Instagram feeling more confused than confident about birth… you’re not doing anything wrong.

I see this all the time with thoughtful, intentional parents.
The ones who care deeply.
The ones trying to prepare well.

You start researching with good intentions…
and suddenly you’re buried under hot takes, “this worked for me” stories, and people who sound very sure of themselves.

Here’s something worth naming gently:

Feeling overwhelmed by online birth advice doesn’t mean you’re bad at making informed decisions.
It usually means you’re navigating a loud, unfiltered internet where confidence shows up faster than nuance.

The real skill isn’t learning more.
It’s learning how to filter.

How to pause instead of panic.
How to notice when your nervous system is overloaded.
How to hold complexity without spiraling.
How to trust yourself while still seeking information.

That’s not indecision.
That’s discernment.

And it’s a strength.

If you want to understand why online birth advice is so easy to get wrong—and how to engage with it without losing your footing—I wrote about it this week:

✨ Why It’s So Easy to Get Misled by Online Birth Advice (and How to Avoid It)
Check it out through the link in my bio.

No shame.
No pressure.
No perfection required.

Just steadier ground to stand on.

— Doula Faye 🌿

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