11/05/2024
It’s Election Day and with all the excitement, uncertainty, anticipation and anxiety you may be wondering how you will ever get to sleep. Did you know that it is NORMAL for sleep to be shorter and lighter when our brains feel under threat, anxious, excited or trying to prepare for an upcoming event? This is your brain’s way of protecting you, processing, and preparing for the future. Sometimes in these circumstances the sleep can even be so light that you don’t feel asleep at all. Understanding and accepting these normal, stress-related changes of sleep is often liberating and allows you to prepare. Here are some of tips for how to cope, I hope they are helpful!
1. Write out your thoughts, feelings and worries before even trying to get into bed for the night. This is a strategy called “worry time” that has been shown to be helpful for insomnia in numerous research studies.
2. Don’t try to go to bed at your normal time. The sleep will be lighter and shorter so reducing your opportunity for sleep is usually helpful. A good guideline is to stay up at least 1-2 hours past your normal bedtime, then read a physical book in bed until you get sleepy. Don’t worry if you end up not getting sleepy until several hours past your normal bedtime. You can also use this time to do more writing.
3. Get up and start your day at a normal time, regardless of how you slept. Getting up at your regular time sets your clock for the day which will allow you to sleep better on subsequent nights.
4. Don’t turn to alcohol or sleeping pills if these are not something you already are using regularly. These substances may make you feel more relaxed about the night but they don’t produce natural sleep and may interfere with your brain’s ability to process whatever happened with the election.
5. In bed, focus on resting rather than sleeping. We cannot control how much sleep we get in any given night but we can try to get our brain and body in to a relaxed state. Just relaxing in bed during the night, whether you are awake or asleep, can have restorative properties. In addition, when our brain feels under threat it may preserve a bit of wakefulness, even while another part of it sleeps so you may feel that you are awake when actually a part of the brain is sleeping. To help yourself rest, try doing some deep breathing (such as 4-7-8 or box breathing) and think about happy moments from the past.
Hang in there, we will get all through this!