12/18/2025
3 things I wish everyone was taught about pushing:
1️⃣ Start every push with an inhale.
A deep diaphragmatic breath sends pressure down into your pelvic floor, helping it open and expand. This works best when your diaphragm (ribs) is stacked over your pelvic floor (hips).
2️⃣ You’ll likely start pushing when baby is in your mid-pelvis.
This space opens best with asymmetrical positions, or when one leg is doing something different than the other. Think side-lying with one leg on a peanut ball, standing with one foot elevated, or sitting with one leg propped.
3️⃣ You can open your pelvic outlet front to back and side to side.
Free your tailbone to open front to back. Bring your knees slightly narrower than your ankles to open side to side. More space = easier movement for baby.
Save this and practice diaphragmatic breathing and various labor positions now, and you’ll set your body up to work smarter, not harder during labor.
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